Cherished wrote:

I'm totally in! I read all of the posts on Superman's game thread, and I just wanted to comment here. A lot of people who started the game were coming from a place of devastation. They also had not managed to let go of the past. Those people did not succeed, and in fact the thread became somewhat of a misery party at times. BUT the principles of the game are sound, and those who were over all their past hurt and ready to rock & roll were very successful! Are there any modifications we could possibly make to ensure a more positive outcome for everyone? My suggestions would be
1. Perhaps not putting a time limit? Just run the game as an ongoing thing. This creates less resistance and anxiety about the "end date" and we all know we get our love in the end anyway, right? 😊
2. Only posting if it is  uplifting/encouraging.. To do this game properly you literally have to believe you already have your love.. And you increase that positive momentum every day. And you bounce off all your forum buddies who are doing the same! You have to go all-out crazy for a little while with your thinking, and suspend your current beliefs/negativity. So perhaps we also could start another thread for people doing the faje who are running into negativity/setbacks. And Veronica/others can help steer them back on track without possibly derailing the game thread..
Just my thoughts, any other ideas? I would be delighted to participate in this!

Can I do this while Scripting? But by scripting I mean writing in my diary how my day went and changing the day to me beng with him and things including him? I think it'll work forme better than to just visualize. I have trouble with visualizing. It always gets messy and confusing in my head

fizzy wrote:

oceanitrogen wrote:

I was interacting a lot in a neville forum on Reddit and it came to light that people believe humanity is one single counciousness and that we're all one and the same instead of singular individuals that are connected but DIFFERENT and separated which is what I believe. And that troubled and bothered me a lot. Because not only does the idea bothers me, but I find it to be utter and complete bs. And what bothered me the most is the fact that people, instead of believing what they believe and reapecting people who think differently, treated me as if I was ignorant and less informed because I believe something else. I hate people like that. Anyway. Just wanted to know if someone here has had trouble with this before. I do believe a hundred percent we're not one, so don't try to convince me otherwise. Just want to know if someone can tell me if they've been through the same

I’m not making excuses for people being rude to you. That’s never right. But, you were in a forum that’s completely devoted to Neville and his teachings. Not an LOA forum where people with a ton of different viewpoints come together. And Neville does teach that everything is only your consciousness — including other people. So if you don’t really agree with Neville and his viewpoint, maybe another forum would be more suited to you. Because most if not all people on that forum will be discussing Neville and no one else. That’s what it’s made for.

But I read Neville stuff. And I interpreted what he said more like a way to say we're all connected, not really the same. I really don't get how people can actually believe we're the same conciousness lol. So many years have passed, we have so many amazing spiritual guides and none of them ever said that. People can believe whatever crazy think they want to though. But forcing your beliefs (not you, I'm talking about them) down someone's throat and acting like you know it all is something real mat

I was interacting a lot in a neville forum on Reddit and it came to light that people believe humanity is one single counciousness and that we're all one and the same instead of singular individuals that are connected but DIFFERENT and separated which is what I believe. And that troubled and bothered me a lot. Because not only does the idea bothers me, but I find it to be utter and complete bs. And what bothered me the most is the fact that people, instead of believing what they believe and reapecting people who think differently, treated me as if I was ignorant and less informed because I believe something else. I hate people like that. Anyway. Just wanted to know if someone here has had trouble with this before. I do believe a hundred percent we're not one, so don't try to convince me otherwise. Just want to know if someone can tell me if they've been through the same

Cynthia wrote:

oceanitrogen wrote:

jensherratt wrote:

​I stopped feeling sorry for myself and really worked on loving myself. EVERYDAY I write gratitude lists, affirmations, I visualize 3 times again and I do RS everyday. I told myself his 'new relationship' wasn't real and it was just a rebound and it was. He told me that when we met up I knew deep down in my heart of hearts that he still had feelings for me. It didn't feel right us not being together. We're soul mates. I remained positive and I really focused on my thoughts and learnt how to control them. Whenever a negative thought came into my mind, I imagine a big red stop sign. I watched loads and loads of LOA videos on YouTube because they are just soo encouraging. I read other posts on here and that helps out a lot. I made slight changes to my appearance. Nothing to drastic, I just got my hair done which gave me a confidence boost. I tried the Superman challenge aswell. I was so focused on getting my man back that when other things manifested around me I knew it would work and it did I not once doubted it and I always said positive affirmations to myself. Even when I did have the odd feeling down moment, I remained positive and he has come back to me I don't really know what else to say. I'm happy to help as much as possible.
 

I know this is old, but I'm having trouble with wha I should visualize. Because I want hjm to come back and say those things, that he'll make it up to me, that he wants to be with me and no one else and that I'm his soul mate. I want him to act exactly like he used to when he was completely in love with me and treat me like his whole world like he used to do. How do I visualize to get all of this?

 
Neville recommended doing this before sleep because that is one of the times when the subconscious mind is at its most receptive to suggestion, and then your visualisation carries over into your sleeping state as well. You would i

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