Sanshi wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

Do you mean my thoughts and feelings when I'm not visualizing and meditating?

Both. You can also feel bad while you visualise, if you don't believe in what you visualise.

80saeaak wrote:

I'm very happy. I try to remain positive.

Well, words are a direct indicator of your vibration. And trying to remain positive is a very different vibration than being very happy. You can lie to others, you can lie to yourself, but you're always emitting vibrationally how you honestly think and feel. I don't suggest that you are dishonest with us or yourself, you are the only one who can really know that. It's just what many people do, when they start. They are desperate after a breakup and then they hear they have to be happy and they try very hard to be happy and within a day, they suddenly tell everyone how happy they are. It's a vibrational impossibility. You can't jump from despair to happiness, it simply doesn't work. The thoughts (and words) you have access to are dependent on your vibration and "trying to remain positive" suggests that you aren't where you'd like to be (yet).

I agree, but life, ya know. No one can always remain positive about everything. No one says "my toilet is leaking and I got a $300 water bill! Hooray!!".  Trying to remain positive in bad situations is important. I disagree also, though. I read a book that literally changed my life and I woke up one day choosing not to be sad anymore. It is very easy to shift your happiness if you work on it.

Sanshi wrote:

It's absolute impossible to say, if that is right, because you don't mention anything about your thoughts and feelings which are the only important factors. But people who think they just have to apply a technique just long enough usualle don't "do it right", because they do all the techniques to make something happen and that doesn't work in my experience.

Do you mean my thoughts and feelings when I'm not visualizing and meditating? I'm very happy. I try to remain positive. My outlook on the outcome has been very good, but I'm okay if it doesn't happen, either. Been working on myself a lot. Working out, eating better, going back to school.... I get that you have to see LOA as a way of life because it's happening whether or not you practice.

I guess my big funk for the past couple of days was the fact that he's seriously seeing someone else, but I'm going to do the rubbing out techniques and continue focusing on me.

Seal wrote:

I haven't been on this forum much since manifesting my love back into my life. What others might deem as hopeless became a reality for me. My love and I are dating again after a brief reconciling of friendship. Her other suitor is out of the picture, and we are exclusive now. I plan on proposing soon, as she is the one for me. The purpose of my post is to encourage others and to give testimony that this LOA stuff works. Not only for love, but in other aspects of your life as well. Thank you all for the information that was provided here. I wish you all success in your life pursuits. I bid adieu, and live long and prosper.

I don't mean to be nosy, but can you message me with your story? How serious was the other relationship? What techniques did you use and how?

Candy01 wrote:

To manifest a date with him, how do I begin with the small steps? It is easier to visualize us going out on a date or visualize him asking me? Im afraid im making this hard than what it seems....

You may be overthinking a little. 😉 Watch Veronica's YouTube videos. Agnes Vivarelli has some awesome ones, too. I do Lanie's PW with Agnes' whisper technique along with several of Veronica's techniques. I would start with visualizing him asking you for your number. Maybe whisper for him to ask you out. Visualize the date. Maybe him bringing you flowers or drinking wine in the corner of a dimly lit restaurant. Whatever you do, don't stress. Stay positive. Have fun with it!

Me? Oh my guy isn't back yet. I've manifested other things easily, though. Believe it. Really believe it. Talk like it's already happened. I say things matter of factly like there's no question that it's already here. Even small things like "I'm getting a new bath rug in canary yellow. It's going to be top-quality and cost practically nothing. It is done". Then let it go and watch it come. Practice with small things. Once you see how easy it is to make things happen, be it a relationship, job, vacation, or shoes, it will be so easy to believe and keep that vibration high!