Lolo wrote:

Hey, friend

I'm gonna say something that no Ex-Back Loa coach says, and I think is a very convenient advice:

BEFORE bringing someone back into your life with the powers you were born with, you should get you back. When we "lose" someone, we lost ourselves first, and from our inner world or from our relationship with ourselves comes everything else. 

Yes, it seems that you have seen some very nice songs, but I can tell you're still attached because you feel confused and anxious about not seeing results. 

What you need to do instead is drop the ex-back process and focus on yourself for months. Do self-love meditation every day, write positive affirmations about yourself every day, write your goals on paper, write what you want for a relationship, write the good things about yourself, write what you have to offer to someone else, write a thousand times "I AM worth it", "I AM love" "I AM Lovable" "I AM Loved"

Heal and clear up your limiting beliefs, your pain, your anxiety and your doubts. The more self-love you have, the easier it will be to trust in your capacity to shape your reality. 

After that, you can restart LOA for your partner and you'll be in a much better position. Unattached, relaxed, happy. But, as many people have experienced already if you manage to let go of your old relationship and really find your self-love, your partner will come back on its own. 

Cheer up, LOA will change your life in much bigger ways than giving you a person. 

Feel free to ask me further questions or ask me for exercises to heal and clearing limiting beliefs. 
 

You are right about finding yourself but you are wrong about Loa coaches all of them including Veronica tell people that to attract someone specific wont work unless we fix our selves first.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

You know, out of sorts. You wake up in the morning and feel - meh. Not about exes or situations, just in general and you don't know why. Or you have a cold or something and just don't feel firing on all cylinders.

Would feeling like this make things go wrong in life, your desires not manifest, or would you just work through it, accept it and that you'll naturally feel better soon, and get on with the day, and that wouldn't have a down-effect on your general, overall vibration?

 

Yeah i get what you say i get that same feeling some times like yesterday but I chose to focus on something else and bham my vibes were up and i got a new job interview.So its not that a bad day will ruin all your vibrational well being its just soemthing you have to accept and move on.At least thats what my loa coach has adviced.But heres a hint....general feeling meh and dont know why??Thats something we all need to know,why we feel meh or good or happy or sad, thats all about awareness as i have come to realise.So when i feel meh i try to relax,concetrate, explore my thoughts, realise the reason -cause there's always a reason even if we say its general- and say to myself ok thats the reason today I am feeling meh, i dont want you in my thoughts move along, goodbye.

Stop watering the plants that are poisonous and water the beautiful roses.

Goodbye and lots of blessing to you 

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Absolutely fabulous. You had a good attitude from the beginning.

I had a similar experience but not as quickly as you possibly because I was quite scared of the future to begin with.

Enjoy your success!

 

Yeah I am enjoying it and hopefully apply this on the rest areas of my life.Thank you so much

Sanshi wrote:

Since I have been more conscious of what I think all day long and what happens to me in response to that, there is a pattern I notice that amuses me and we can learn something from. Nearly every time I have one of that nice small manifestations and talk about it to other people and am excited about it, it happens again within a few days. The second time, I'm a little less excited and don't talk about it so much anymore and it doesn't happen again.

There isn't really anything special about that. It's just proof of LoA and I don't need proof of it anymore, but think about it for a moment. What do you do, when something bad happens with your ex or any other thing you want? You think about it, you talk about it. Then it happens again or something that feels similar bad, but you don't talk less about it, you talk MORE about it. Now you think about both of that situations and it becomes more and more. How about thinking and feeling more about the things you want and less about the things you don't want? Look at this forum..how many post do you see where people are telling us how great their day was? And look at all the miserable, complaining, self-pitty posts. The way most of you use this forum isn't serving you at all!

You are so right about this one.(Well you are right about lots of stuff but this one hit me like a rock) Yesterday i had my last session with my loa coach here in Greece and thats the topic we discussed btw. Thinking and observing and knowing what thoughts I am having all day and how they set up emotions for me. And you are on the spot when i manifested a meeting with my love i could not stop talking about it the first 2-3 days.then i just like froze and got anxious and nothing happened.And the last days i keep having manifestations of things i dont want.So i asked my self why?and the response was cause you are focused on that.We all should really focus on posting more of appreciating posts and things we enjoy. and here is my first o