iinikkii,

You CAN and you WILL. But everyone's journey is different and will have different timing. A lot of us have shared personal successes with you today. It works, but analyzing it to death doesn't give you faith. Trust me when I say that overthinking it hinders your progress. It did for me. But also trust me when I say it totally works Do your visualization and feel like it's so real that you can feel yourself in his arms, etc. Notice how it feels. Once you've done that, it's a done deal. You experience it in the mind, you'll experience it in the body. I can list other reasons why this works below if you care to read, but that's all you really need to do. Just be the person that has this guy, close your eyes and experience him in your mind, just for now. Do it because it feels good. Do it until you aren't stressed about the situation anymore. That's when you'll see movement in the right direction...when you aren't stressing out about it

For the more technical stuff, basically, when you implant an ideal in your subconscious mind, it does some "thinking" for you in the background. Say, you have a particular goal and you just KNOW that you'll make this goal happen. Your subconscious accepts this goal and scans your environment for opportunities. Ironically, the subconscious also accepts these suggestions easiest when you aren't overly stressed or worried about them. That's why it's best if there is some level of disconnect. Not apathy or loss of desire, but "faith" that it will happen when it happens. Basically, the subconscious is your higher self, building the bridges from where you are to where you want to be. You'll get "ideas" and "hints." That's you higher self/subconscious nudging you. It will lead you in the right direction, putting ideas, opportunities, people, things, events in your path to get you to your goal. It does it so well, it appears like a coincidence. But it's not. It's you...helping you. It's a beautiful thing. Really, the difference

iinikkii,
I sort of feel like you are looking for reassurance. It's not a bad thing. We all have done that at one time or another. There are plenty of stories online (here, the secret website, PLOA forums, Powerful Intentions forums) where people discuss how they've got their loves back. Just keep in mind, it is that needy vibration that keeps the things you want apart from you. Your desire needs to be out of love, not ego. Not based on "oh, I was hurt, so I have to get him back," or "I'll teach him to leave me," or "I want him and only him, and if I don't get him, then I'd rather die alone" kind of feelings. It needs to be a vibration of "I love you, and I appreciate you...and I want nothing but the best for you, and I want to invite you to share an amazing life with me" kind of vibe. It absolutely works, but it works when you've learned how to center your energy and be truly happy.

There are  a couple of ways to do this: One way is to just dive in and live as if you have what you want. Your visualizations are so real and amazing that you open your eyes and you are flying high all day long. You think, react to the world as if you have what you desire. Neville calls this living "from the wish fulfilled." You've become the person that has what you want, you know that you can feel those feelings within yourself at any time, and you are at peace with everything. You know it's coming, so...who cares? You are living it up!

The second way to go about it is to put that intention out there. You want to be with so and so again. Boom, order has been placed. I like to think of this as the restaurant analogy. You've placed your order, now just get busy, enjoying friends and family. Don't keep pestering the cook while he's preparing the meal. It's on the way, so no worries! In this situation, people tend to just immerse themselves in something that they are passionate about and THAT raises their vibration through the roof. They are loving life and enjoying/appreciating things

My god, Cherished. AMAZING. ❤️😊

Yep, I just sort of addressed this in your other post, too. Haha.

I totally get where you are coming from, man. However, you are making this situation all about her, intentional or not. You make this stuff work by focusing on yourself. You are directing too much of your energy in her direction, and that has a tendency to repel. This sounds strange, I know...but make yourself the priority. Focus on yourself and things that make you happy outside of her. Read this thread below...good strategy and explains positive selfishness. Love her unconditionally, but learn to be okay without her for right now.

http://www.powerfulintentions.org/m/discussion?id=1335877%3ATopic%3A1383499