AceWay123 wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

Meg2222 wrote:

Just wondering, how long does it take to see results or receive a message?

Also, How can I stop having negative thoughts, I kinda nip them in the bud when they come but will that ruin everything as soon as I have a bad thought? 

There isn't a set time.  It can happen instantly, days later etc.  It really depends on you.

Negative thoughts don't instantly ruin everything.  If you're catching yourself, re-thinking the thoughts etc - you should be fine.

Completely correct Avaelle.

One negative thought can not randomly create without any actions, without any beliefs and definitely its something you won't work for so it cant create unless naturally, the way life is, does it on its own but it won't be as bad as you are thinking, because if you are not going to that direction, its unatural for life to randomly create something to bad. A thought is a thought, dont be scared or anything. It won't do anything unless you take it further.

The best thing to do with negative thoughts is understand that its good to be aware of those negative thoughts... Because they show you what actions can cause those problems... So if you know what actions cause those problems, you can avoid them. Once you do that, simply let it go. Say to yourself, "yes it can happen but its unlikely because thats not what im working for, its not needed but yeah im proud to be aware of the actions so i can avoid them".

The results to see for the message depends on you and also the other person. The resistance can be long or short on the other person but at the end, they give up the resistance. My advice would be to send more love and less sexual feelings. Do give sexual feelings but give love more.

Sexual feelings can make them miss you like a fantasy way, but Love can really make them miss you with the knowlege that you were always the one for them and that your love was real.

Apology for long note..I need help here.

cinsobr07 wrote:

Hello Surbhi,
I think everyone on this forum knows how you feel. Accept and respect how you feel right now, and when you feel better, do your meditation, prayer, visualization etc but make sure you are in a relaxed state. Use the energy around you while visualizing.  I am in a same situation as you, I cried and cried when I found out that my love has met someone online. Like your situation, he was my best friend. My heart was crushed when he told me about that situation. I work really closely with him, as in everyday. Spends the whole day and sometimes night with him, people look at us as having a romantic relationship. Hearing other people ask him about his life makes my heart pound and crushed. In order for me to keep my dignity, respect to myself, here are the techniques I used to protect myself and to continue loving him:
- I refrain from asking him about his life, meaning the "other" person (I refrain from using the term or name so as not to give it power). If he mentions the "other", I simply ignore it as if I didn't hear it
- I unfollowed him from social media
- Whenever our colleagues ask him about the "other", I simply ignore or block it from my senses as if I didn't hear it or I excuse myself from the conversation.
- Whenever I thought of him with other business, I cough 2x to delete it from my consciousness or say delete (3x) and send him my love and state that "I forgive you (and your ex"). I consider the "other" as already ex because she is.
- Everyday, I always give my gratitude to him, list all the good things that I am thankful for, including other things. I write it with full emotions of happiness and gratitude.
- I have a journal scripting and believe it or not, almost half of the scriptings I did with him already manifested.
- Use PW and BWD, including cutting the cord from Lanie and Veronica's videos are really helpful. Again, I know he is mine, all the cells in my body knows that he is mine.
- I  practice patience and and f

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