I think so too. I need to find me. To find peace within me.
At the same time, when I asked the question, I asked "how will my future with her look like?" And I Got a tarot reading telling me that in 3 weeks time, this younger person who was her age, would enter my life.
So confused.

All of the sudden, out of the blue she just unfollowed me on IG.
I have absolutely no idea what is going on.
I Really have trouble right now in believing the LOA. I have done absolutely everything right, and still this is the result.
It just continue to get worse and worse, whenever I try to do better and better.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

ThisDude wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

My thoughts.... if you have had absolutely no contact with her and she randomly texted you with this, she's feeling the urge and resisting. Like she's trying to justify in her own head that she's feeling it, but she doesn't want it.

That brings up a whole new thing, though. You keep affirming to yourself "she loves me". That's kind of backwards. You should be sending unconditional love, meaning even if she doesn't come back to you, you still love her and wish her the best. If she's resisting, are you willing to overpower what she wants? Personally, I don't believe in free will and think you can absolutely break someone's "will". Is that the measure you want to take to make this happen? I only ask because over seen a few posts on a few forums about people realizing they were RSed by people they absolutely don't want and it makes them feel violated. Personal morals and ethics come into play here. The question is if you get her back, do you want then possibly of having to continue to try to attract this one person for the rest of your life? And you may want to ask yourself what you're lacking in self-love that you feel the need to get it from her.

I'm rooting for you. I just think our ego gets in the way of what's best sometimes.

This was well put but I must say that if the love between them was real and now he's working on himself to become better AND he's also sending her love, she might be feeling it but not feeling it properly (yet), in a way.
Her mind might still be stuck on what happened in the past and therefore she's not willing to reestablish a relationship (yet) and so she believes closure is the best thing to do.

It's still odd to me that she would randomly bring that up, it's more like she's trying to convince herself that it was really "for the best".

@Lj, if 80saeaak is right, you really need to become a better version of yourself and fast! You don't want the old relationship because that e

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