Lj wrote:

She told me she talked to her sister and her friend about us. And they said it would never work out between ud, mainly because of the age difference and that she went too fast into "us" after her last relationship.

The reason why she wrote, is because we are Going to the same birthday tomorrow. So I guess she wrote to get it all cleared out.

I guess I just have to keep working on my self.

It's kind of a bummer to get that text, when I've been doing all these things all troughout summer. Haven't missed her, just Looking forward to see her again. And now my vibes got all low.

Nothing is final and everything is ever changing, raise your vibration as soon as possible! That text is now in the past since it already happened, never dwell on past events specially if they don't serve you.

The only way is forward, if LoA techniques make you feel good keep doing them, everything is energy and malleable, focus solely on the relationship you want to have with the girl and not on the girl herself, in order to draw her closer.

People have manifested millions of dollars and ridiculous situations one may call "miracles" so why the hell can't you do this too?

Good luck!

Lj wrote:

ThisDude wrote:

Lj wrote:

She told me she talked to her sister and her friend about us. And they said it would never work out between ud, mainly because of the age difference and that she went too fast into "us" after her last relationship.

The reason why she wrote, is because we are Going to the same birthday tomorrow. So I guess she wrote to get it all cleared out.

I guess I just have to keep working on my self.

It's kind of a bummer to get that text, when I've been doing all these things all troughout summer. Haven't missed her, just Looking forward to see her again. And now my vibes got all low.

Nothing is final and everything is ever changing, raise your vibration as soon as possible! That text is now in the past since it already happened, never dwell on past events specially if they don't serve you.

The only way is forward, if LoA techniques make you feel good keep doing them, everything is energy and malleable, focus solely on the relationship you want to have with the girl and not on the girl herself, in order to draw her closer.

People have manifested millions of dollars and ridiculous situations one may call "miracles" so why the hell can't you do this too?

Good luck!

Thank you for raising my vibe 😊
I definately won't Call it quits and Will continue to focus on my self. Send her all the love I can and just keep positive.

This forum is lacking some inspirational success stories, believe in yourself and in your ability to create. You will post a story eventually, so just enjoy the journey and the process meanwhile, you got nothing to lose.

ThisDude wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

My thoughts.... if you have had absolutely no contact with her and she randomly texted you with this, she's feeling the urge and resisting. Like she's trying to justify in her own head that she's feeling it, but she doesn't want it.

That brings up a whole new thing, though. You keep affirming to yourself "she loves me". That's kind of backwards. You should be sending unconditional love, meaning even if she doesn't come back to you, you still love her and wish her the best. If she's resisting, are you willing to overpower what she wants? Personally, I don't believe in free will and think you can absolutely break someone's "will". Is that the measure you want to take to make this happen? I only ask because over seen a few posts on a few forums about people realizing they were RSed by people they absolutely don't want and it makes them feel violated. Personal morals and ethics come into play here. The question is if you get her back, do you want then possibly of having to continue to try to attract this one person for the rest of your life? And you may want to ask yourself what you're lacking in self-love that you feel the need to get it from her.

I'm rooting for you. I just think our ego gets in the way of what's best sometimes.

This was well put but I must say that if the love between them was real and now he's working on himself to become better AND he's also sending her love, she might be feeling it but not feeling it properly (yet), in a way.
Her mind might still be stuck on what happened in the past and therefore she's not willing to reestablish a relationship (yet) and so she believes closure is the best thing to do.

It's still odd to me that she would randomly bring that up, it's more like she's trying to convince herself that it was really "for the best".

@Lj, if 80saeaak is right, you really need to become a better version of yourself and fast! You don't want the old relationship because that ended poorly, you want a new one and even if she doesn't want one yet, you can keep doing what you're doing and still work on yourself so that you develop a tremendous amount of positive energy and self love which will make her fall head over heels over you once more. If you can become irresistible physically and mentally as well as keeping on practicing LoA techniques she will love you like never before (again, if the love was heartfelt).

I think they only had a couple of dates, not a longstanding relationship.

My comment was for clarification not criticism as a fairly new poster had asked.

Lifesagas wrote:

PF wasn't saying you can't have feelings, just that some posters were posting from the POV that you'd already been in a solid relationship.

It's much, much easier to manifest someone who has already loved you and spent a lot of time with you is all. You don't need all that to manifest someone but it does make it easier.

That's exactly what I was saying - in your first paragraph.