She might be resisting your influence, however...

There's no way what she is saying means anything of any relevance, she's saying that probably trying to get a reaction from you. I bet this is the Universe testing you.

Sometimes I also feel like the Universe is mocking me with certain things that happen, when I analyse the situation I find that it's a way of telling me where my vibration is at. Anyway, I think she's saying that in order to see if you've moved on or not. Stay positive and pay no mind to her words.
 

I've also been experiencing synchronicities lately.

This has to mean we are on the right path, maybe it doesn't matter what happens before the end result, maybe we need to stop getting so caught up on what we are doing or what they're doing and just let the desire go.

You've put in a lot of work in the desire which means there's always a bit of resistance attached to it since it's something you really want. Take that conversation as a signal that your work is done for now and relax, the more I do LoA techniques the more I tell myself there's no way my girl can't feel my vibration and so letting go of the desire for a while might just be the key.

80saeaak wrote:

My thoughts.... if you have had absolutely no contact with her and she randomly texted you with this, she's feeling the urge and resisting. Like she's trying to justify in her own head that she's feeling it, but she doesn't want it.

That brings up a whole new thing, though. You keep affirming to yourself "she loves me". That's kind of backwards. You should be sending unconditional love, meaning even if she doesn't come back to you, you still love her and wish her the best. If she's resisting, are you willing to overpower what she wants? Personally, I don't believe in free will and think you can absolutely break someone's "will". Is that the measure you want to take to make this happen? I only ask because over seen a few posts on a few forums about people realizing they were RSed by people they absolutely don't want and it makes them feel violated. Personal morals and ethics come into play here. The question is if you get her back, do you want then possibly of having to continue to try to attract this one person for the rest of your life? And you may want to ask yourself what you're lacking in self-love that you feel the need to get it from her.

I'm rooting for you. I just think our ego gets in the way of what's best sometimes.

This was well put but I must say that if the love between them was real and now he's working on himself to become better AND he's also sending her love, she might be feeling it but not feeling it properly (yet), in a way.
Her mind might still be stuck on what happened in the past and therefore she's not willing to reestablish a relationship (yet) and so she believes closure is the best thing to do.

It's still odd to me that she would randomly bring that up, it's more like she's trying to convince herself that it was really "for the best".

@Lj, if 80saeaak is right, you really need to become a better version of yourself and fast! You don't want the old relationship because that ended poorly, you want a new one and even if she doesn't want one yet, you can keep doing what you're doing and still work on yourself so that you develop a tremendous amount of positive energy and self love which will make her fall head over heels over you once more. If you can become irresistible physically and mentally as well as keeping on practicing LoA techniques she will love you like never before (again, if the love was heartfelt).

ThisDude wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

My thoughts.... if you have had absolutely no contact with her and she randomly texted you with this, she's feeling the urge and resisting. Like she's trying to justify in her own head that she's feeling it, but she doesn't want it.

That brings up a whole new thing, though. You keep affirming to yourself "she loves me". That's kind of backwards. You should be sending unconditional love, meaning even if she doesn't come back to you, you still love her and wish her the best. If she's resisting, are you willing to overpower what she wants? Personally, I don't believe in free will and think you can absolutely break someone's "will". Is that the measure you want to take to make this happen? I only ask because over seen a few posts on a few forums about people realizing they were RSed by people they absolutely don't want and it makes them feel violated. Personal morals and ethics come into play here. The question is if you get her back, do you want then possibly of having to continue to try to attract this one person for the rest of your life? And you may want to ask yourself what you're lacking in self-love that you feel the need to get it from her.

I'm rooting for you. I just think our ego gets in the way of what's best sometimes.

This was well put but I must say that if the love between them was real and now he's working on himself to become better AND he's also sending her love, she might be feeling it but not feeling it properly (yet), in a way.
Her mind might still be stuck on what happened in the past and therefore she's not willing to reestablish a relationship (yet) and so she believes closure is the best thing to do.

It's still odd to me that she would randomly bring that up, it's more like she's trying to convince herself that it was really "for the best".

@Lj, if 80saeaak is right, you really need to become a better version of yourself and fast! You don't want the old relationship because that ended poorly, you want a new one and even if she doesn't want one yet, you can keep doing what you're doing and still work on yourself so that you develop a tremendous amount of positive energy and self love which will make her fall head over heels over you once more. If you can become irresistible physically and mentally as well as keeping on practicing LoA techniques she will love you like never before (again, if the love was heartfelt).

Well, yes. There's a lot of information missing from this story. I'm not asking for a background. That's none of my business. I think what caught my eye was "she loves me". I don't think it matters if he's trying to convince himself or her of this. There isn't a time that I can think of that this is healthy to desire someone else's love, you know? You have to love yourself so much that even if a person doesn't love you back you can move ahead without feeling a total void. I'm wondering if he's still feeeling that void after all this time of self love. That's definitely something to chew over.

She told me she talked to her sister and her friend about us. And they said it would never work out between ud, mainly because of the age difference and that she went too fast into "us" after her last relationship.

The reason why she wrote, is because we are Going to the same birthday tomorrow. So I guess she wrote to get it all cleared out.

I guess I just have to keep working on my self.

It's kind of a bummer to get that text, when I've been doing all these things all troughout summer. Haven't missed her, just Looking forward to see her again. And now my vibes got all low.