Hi there lovelies,

So a few months ago I decided I was going to try and stop attracting my ex after two years but instead find my soul mate whether or not it was my ex or someone new.

A few months later I met my new boyfriend while buying my new car ❤ we were star struck with eachother from the first time we met and we both fell in love very very quickly. Everything has been wonderful so far, already talked of marriage and children. Both our families are certain we are meant for eachother and even they have discussed a wedding and grandchildren and I've honestly never loved someone so much ever before... we are perfect for eachother and he calls me his soul mate ❤

But here's the thing... I've been hurt very badly in the past as I'm sure most of you reading this has as well... and I'm constantly living with the fear of losing him and because I'm doing this I'm then thinking negative thoughts instead of positive ones and I know I need to do something about them before it's too late but at the moment the fear of a breakup is over powering the emotions of happiness with him and I'm getting even more worried and fearful.... such a massive problem... it's actually getting me into a really bad place mentally and it's exhausting...

I want to spend the rest of my life with him ❤ so I really need help on how I can over come these thoughts before I attract negative things into my relationship and things I can do to make sure we will always be together?

Thank you all so much in advance xx

Angel_0199 wrote:

Wow congratulations!! Well done! I would love to know what your process was. That’s such an amazing energetic transformation!

Xo

Thank you so my process was all about getting to a great place. Once I was there I was able to find happiness with in myself. I stopped putting my focus on him and just had faith. I focused on the positives in my life and got rid of negatives and was able to let go and relax alot quicker. I also started to develop feelings for others and went on a few dates along the way which meant that I was able to detach myself from the feeling of loss. I felt like everything was going forward and I wasn't worrying as much as I used to. I felt genuinely happy inside and out and as soon as that happened there he was.

Hope this helps

Hey lovelies,

So after blocking me and having no contact with me or wanting to even
acknowledge my existence for almost two years he sent me a friend request and messaged me!!

Wow

I'm so grateful for this huge step and I am so excited to see what the future will bring ❤

fizzy wrote:

I can’t say this has ever happened to me, but I’ll give you my opinion. I think that if you truly desire to be with someone, no amount of detachment will erase that desire. So if you are feeling that you may not want to be with him anymore, I think that may just be you discovering what your real desire is. Maybe it’s a relationship, but not with him. But also remember that everyone just reflects your beliefs about them. So you can absolutely manifest a better version of him, no matter how he was in the past. I think you just have to think about what you really want.

Thank you so much for that and you are right

Hello lovelies,

I'm in a bit of a pickle. A very old and dear friend of mine has come back into my life very suddenly. He was one of my best friends as children and he always admitted to having a little crush on me at one stage. I haven't seen him in years due to an argument involving his now girlfriend and my ex friend who he had just split up from at the time (I was piggy in the middle)

We bumped into eachother and are back in contact and I'm so excited! However

He's admitted to me he is still in love with me... But he's in a relationship with my sister's best friend and has been for 3 years!!

I'm at a loss on what to do. Seeing and talking to him again conjured up feelings I didn't even know were there and he feels the same...

... I just don't want to hurt anybody in the process! His girlfriend is very much in love with him and I don't want her to suffer a broken heart! I don't know if I could live with that...

But at the same time I think I might be falling big time...

I'm at a total loss on what to do! Any advice or suggestions would be very much appreciated

Thank you