I moved this post to a more relevant section for you! 

I imagine that transitioning is a very taxing time emotionally, so I can understand why he'd want a break. This situation is salvageable, though! If you feel uneasy spending time with him, take some time for yourself and get through the hurt that you're feeling.

Once you feel like you're in a better place, focus on the end result. It'll come to you. 

 

I found out about the Law of Attraction when I was desperate to get different people back into my life at various points. 
I'll be honest, I never got back in contact with the person I wanted to bring back into my life. I wound up meeting someone else I felt much better being with and it didn't feel like work with him. We've been together for 2 years and are very happy. I have manifested exes back into my life, but old habits die hard, and they left again. 

When a relationship ends, you tend to overlook the aspects of the person and the relationships in general that weren't great and put them on a pedestal. It hurts, right? Deal with the hurt first. There is no hurry, the longer you let it get to you, the more you'll get back.

You also need to be clear on what it is that you want from a relationship, a lot of people set their minds on just getting a text. Don't you want more than a text? Do you want someone who'll sit with you, rather than going to a party and just watching whatever on Netflix? 

This is what messed me up the most in regards to manifesting, impatience. I'd force myself through whatever routine I'd set myself, I'd hear my phone make a noise, leap for it, then wind up irate that it wasn't the person I wanted to hear from at that stage. That behaviour was alienating. 

I could do a more in-depth post in the future if anyone is interested.
In these situations, we tend to set ourselves on fire to keep another person warm. 
What I've mentioned where good jump-off points for me to realise that I had to do some self-reflecting. 

 

Hello!
I've moved this thread to the Ex/Specific person sub forum. 

I'll also chime in with what I learned during my time trying to manifest a person back into my life. 

Rehashing the same, old story only affirms the lack. I'll also be repeating Cynthia a bit here, but live in the end result. What would you two be doing together? How does their hug feel? What TV shows would you be watching together, things like that.

Focusing on the time that has passed and reminding yourself you are without this person will bring more of that about, as you have experienced already. 

I ended up needing an extended break from the forum, I've not been in the frame of mind for giving advice. I've been hurting, I've got a lot of inner work to do. My relationship is going strong, my blog is getting better by the day. 

I still believe in LOA, I always will, but I've had to deal with trauma so I can live the life I deserve. 

Ultraviolenx wrote:

Hi❤
Is it wrong or bad if i want to manifest a boy who is bisexual (99% gay) while i'm a girl, and it he's now in a happy relationship with another gay boy?
I love him so much

It is entirely possible, but do you believe it is?
You just visualise the end result.