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Please send advice
I'm 16, and my boyfriend of 2+ years recently broke up with me. Unrelated, he recently came out as transgender, and I am okay with that and I have made peace with him beginning his transition. I love him so much, but he says that over the past few weeks his feelings have just changed. It felt like out of nowhere one day he just stopped feeling the same about me. I have really been struggling because this whole change from dating to friends has been super hard on me. He promised after the break that we could try dating again, but I really can't lose him given I still love him so much and want to be together. I was wondering if you have any advice on my situation and if you could help clear up some fuzzy lines. I'm not sure if we should still be hanging out and spending time together, or give each other space. We always talked every day and told each other everything and I just don't know what to do with myself because I can't stop thinking about him. Thank you so much!!
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Re: Please send advice
I moved this post to a more relevant section for you! 
I imagine that transitioning is a very taxing time emotionally, so I can understand why he'd want a break. This situation is salvageable, though! If you feel uneasy spending time with him, take some time for yourself and get through the hurt that you're feeling.
Once you feel like you're in a better place, focus on the end result. It'll come to you.
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Re: Please send advice
Hi all, wishing you a wonderful and successful day.
I'm new to this forum and I'm posting my messages here and there as I do not know the exact access of this forum.
Hopefully I'm posting my message here as I saw Veronica's response here.
Veronica Please make a video on these kind of SPs after reading my story below. May be helpful for people like me.
My SP sends fake love messages to me. Whenever he texts or calls I respond to it and then for sometime or some days he will not call and when I let go, again he will start texting and calling me. This is my current situation. Also I see him spending a long time now and then in WhatsApp. But seeing all these things I become silent and let go. But he will start pestering or blaming that I'm avoiding him. Hearing to this, if I again text him back he will never read my message even if he is online, he will make me wait for the whole day and then only he is responding.
AFTER LISTENING TO VERONICA'S VIDEOS I DON'T CONTACT HIM, HE ONLY CONTACTS ME, BUT WHEN I RESPOND TO HIM, HE IGNORES ME OR REMAINS SILENT TO MY RESPONSE AND HE KEEPS ON HURTING THE SAME WAY. IF I DON'T RESPOND HE BEGS FOR MY RESPONSE. ON AND OFF THIS IS WHAT HAPPENING.
VERONICA OR ANYONE ELSE PLEASE RESPOND WHAT SHOULD I DO IN THIS KIND OF SITUATIONS.
I requested him for a meeting. One year since we met. He is not ready because I told him that I want to check his phone as there was third party and he told me when he come to meet me, I can check, but not ready for the meeting. But says that he is very much in love with me and not even a single time I have experienced it. So many lies I found.
Next he said he will convey our relationship to his sister for getting help but had never said it.
HOPE I WILL GET HELP FROM SOMEONE HERE
THANKS AND REGARDS
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com