You’re so right. They really don’t. We kind of talked about that today, but at the same time he said that they do. I kind of screwed up without even realizing that.

His step dad’s mom said something that it was my turn to have a baby. Everyone else in the room just rolled their eyes and got really awkward, so I panicked and said “ha ha, that wouldn’t be received well.” I told him about it and he flipped. He said if he hears about it from anyone that our relationship is over. I feel bad because I didn’t think what I said was bad, it just meant that it’s not the right time for me to have a baby. I even put my mom into the comment because it wouldn’t be received well by her either. I want to have a happy life with him. But he’s saying now that it’s  not worth it to keep me if he has to keep having discussions with his family about me.  He said that I ruined Christmas. I want to be able to turn this day around before he gets off work and hopefully turn things around for me.

We both love each other so much but he puts so much weight on them. And I don’t want him to feel like he has to choose.

Kavik wrote:

Focus on you, try to be align again, be happy, work in yourself, love yourself, you're a shining person, the only thing that yo need to do is shine and his family will see that too. 

Think on this, if he wants to be with you and he keep going with your relationship, then his family will accept it sooner or later. 

Calm Down, meditate, don't focus on the bad things, his family doesn't have the last word on your relationship. you have the last word on this. 

Hi everyone, I haven’t been on here in awhile but I need a safe space to share.

I’ve manifested a new boyfriend in March of this year. I opened myself up to receiving something better and it came. I live in his town now, I was living with him but then I moved into my own place because his brother and family took over the house. But either way, living in his moms house was always going to be temporary for me.

Things have been good with us, sometimes I let things get to me and I unconsciously revert to my old ways of worry. But there’s one specific aspect I want to focus on, because this story is just way too deep and complicated to go on about.

Rewind a few months ago. He started a new job and went away for a month for training. In that time, his appreciation for me grew and he asked me to be his life partner. Then I told him that he was my forever. When I asked him if I was his, he said “you’ll find out on Christmas.” When I asked what he meant, he kept saying “just trust me, you’re going to have a good Christmas.” I don’t know why, but since then I’ve been thinking and dancing around the idea of him proposing. And I would honestly love to be married to him.

But, after something happened with his brother - it’s a long story based on stuff that’s made up, but basically, he was told that I’m not welcome in his house because they don’t feel “safe” around me. I haven’t done anything to cause this honestly, we really don’t talk all that much. But there has been some energy in the house that has thrown my vibe off, that got leaked back to everyone, and now everyone thinks I’m “mentally unstable” which I’m not. So now, after he and I had a little talk about how the two of them were going to talk, and he stated that in this discussion he has no choice but to respect his family’s opinion and will not stand up for me, he now has no idea if our relationship has a future. He said there are aspects of me that make relations

Hey everyone, I could just use some good vibes, some healing energy sent my way right now. I posted before about some bumps in the road lately and being in a low vibrational place, and Lolo gave me an amazing exercise to do, and I've been doing it and it feels great when I do.  

Tonight, however, my boyfriend just told me that he only wanted me to move out there with him because he wanted to get out of spending money on a return ticket for me to come back home. I am supposed to leave monday,  I even have job interviews set up... and we both just exploded at each other. The details are irrelevant, I'm not here to get people to take my side vs. his. But yet, I do want to save this and I do want to be in control. However doing  these exercises when I'm in a low vibration is counterproductive, because you're supposed to be feeling good when I do them. But please, some encouraging words would be appreciated at this time. 

I will be up all night working on a final paper...I took time out of that to talk to him and this was the outcome. I hung up on him and told him he doesn't have a girlfriend anymore and he's losing me, because things had escalated that  bad,  and he wasn't saying very nice things. I know I need  to fix my vibration before I work again on fixing it, and I'll be focusing on my schoolwork...or trying to,  I kind of can't stop crying. But prayers,  encouraging words, healing energy,  all would  be  very very much appreciated. Just could use some support or a virtual hug. 

This thread is still going......you'd think someone with 17 pages of replies and support and thousands of views on their post would be  thankful for what they're getting....every single other post on this thread doesn't even have 1/16 of the responses this on has. LOA at work. 

Lolo wrote:

Now, about the script
Consider yourself as the director of your life. Your life is your movie, and everyone in it are following a script.
Follow this meditation:
Imagine yourself in a big, beautiful theater. The theater has no roof, and you can look at the stars, the moon, and the clouds when you look up.
You're at the center of the stage, and you're looking at all the beautiful souls that are a part of your life. Souls are loving and kind, and everyone you encounter that is mean to you is just confused by your own thoughts that are pushing them away.
Now, in the center of the stage, imagine yourself greeting all of the important people in your life. Look at them. Could be your mother, your father, your brothers, your friends, your lover,...
Thank them for the role they've had so far, thank them for all the love they've given, and thank them for all the expansion they've caused in you.
Now, try this only with your mother.
Bring your mother forward, and say to her: "I now take responsibility for the role you're going to play in my life. I now want you to deliver the unlovely script I've given you"
See your mother giving you the script she currently has. And old, rugged, ugly fold of papers. Throw it into the sky and see as it vanishes in the night.
Next, give your mother whatever script you want to give her. "Now you will play the role of the loving, supporting mother I've always wanted"
And see yourself giving your mother a new, beautiful script. Next, hug her, kiss her, and say thanks. End your meditation.
Do it with full conviction that you're changing your reality. Do it with your heart full of love and joy. 

This part...this script/meditation, I've never heard this before and it really resonated with me hard. I even feel a little better just  after  reading  and  absorbing  your words. I can't thank you enough. This  really does click with me. I'm bookmarking this thread so I ca