Cherished, I am with you. I have been on this journey for 3 months and it suddenly clicked for me that this journey is about me. It isnt about my ex. That is just a perk. This is about my happiness, my joy, my peace of mind and ultimately getting me back. I'm doing this journey for me. I am on the pedastal. Anytime you lose your power in a relationship and give up who you are at your core being, your relationship will not survive, plain and simple. And this forum often gets a bad rap as many do not understand this goal. Those of us who understand want to empower others to feel this power and to use it to create everything that you desire. We do not do this with the intention to degrade, confuse, or insult anyone. It is our intention to improve the overall vibe in this forum to bring it back to a place where people are truly helped and empowered to find their own path. However,this journey requires soul wrenching gut checking, this requires work on your own to raise your vibration. That is truly where the magic happens. I can give a huge example of my own growth. To me it is a success story, but some may not see the significance. I hadn't talked to my dad in over 10 years. I won't get into the old, unimportant story. Bottomline, I learned to forgive, live from love, and realize that our egos are what requires an apology. I thought one day, "wouldn't it be nice, if my dad was in my life again." and boom, he sent me a Facebook friend request and then he called me. We have talked but the circumstances of the past no longer matter. This would never have occurred without this journey.

I first and foremost would like to thank Cherished for all that she has done to contribute her time and energy to this forum. She is filled with wisdom, love, and grace and goes out of her way to help others. This forum has been getting very negative as of late and while I do understand that people are hurting and heartbroken, using LOA to attract back a ex is not for the faint of heart as it does require a certain level of healing before it can be utilized. It is difficult to break up one day and while still in tears, depressed, and heartbroken to apply it. One must be able to separate from the emotions in order to get the outcome they desire. I will say that it has been difficult as of late to read some of the post as those of us who have cleaned up their vibrations have found their vibrations suffering and have been avoiding the forum. Some people on the forum have simply chosen to ignore the advice given by many who have success thst can back up their words. Many individuals have jumped on board to help out and many of those messages have the same underlying message just are worded differently. Some people just do not want to hear the truth and only want to hear what they want to hear. When you clean up your vibration these words become crystal clear. And some of the posts lately have gotten out of hand and cherished has done nothing more than stop some of these and there was no sense for these to continue. She is the administrator, it is her job to "police" to ensure that this forum continues to help as many people as possible. LOA works but the real work is getting yourself back and really had very little to do with your ex. I apologize if this affects anyone but I feel that someone needs to recognize the sacrifice that cherished has made to help others succeed.

Well Rollingrock is what Sam is so delicately trying to explain to you is that your girl appears to be your entire life. What's you value? What do you like to do without her? Where do you go without her? What are your hobbies? Do you love yourself? Those kinds of things..she is asking you to consider working on yourself and focusing on yourself and just totally forget about her. She is asking you to step back and assume that she isn't coming back to improve yourself, develop yourself, and stop pining over her. So for all technical purposes, yes just assume she isn't coming back and make this journey about you and not her.

No problem. I just want people to feel better and feel alive. Then whatever happens after that is amazing. Just feel love, feel passionate, and be who are meant to be. Don't focus so much on what he is doing or who he is doing it with. You are the prize, you are able to create anything you desire.

My new story..

I have the most amazing, loving, passionate relationship with my partner, C. She simply adores me in everyway. She is head over heels in love with me and she cannot keep her hands off me. We are so affectionate with each other and we tell each other how much we love and appreciate one another. Our favorite thing to do together is to snuggle on the couch and watch movies. We have so many fun times together and everyday is a new adventure. We have moved back in together and things are better than ever. I absolutely love coming home to my love everyday and sharing my life with her. Our relationship is so easy, free flowing, and we are both so happy and joyful. I have never been this happy. I walk around with a smile on my face and love in my heart. I am so grateful for our relationship and how fantastic things are between us.