I think you handled this situation as best as you could. We all do wish him the best but he has to do the work on himself, enabling him with the same answers when someone is clearly needs to take a step back. last thing I'll say about that. Just send some loving energy.

And yes I am!! I am so wanting to pump the love back into this forum!!

Cherished, I am with you. I have been on this journey for 3 months and it suddenly clicked for me that this journey is about me. It isnt about my ex. That is just a perk. This is about my happiness, my joy, my peace of mind and ultimately getting me back. I'm doing this journey for me. I am on the pedastal. Anytime you lose your power in a relationship and give up who you are at your core being, your relationship will not survive, plain and simple. And this forum often gets a bad rap as many do not understand this goal. Those of us who understand want to empower others to feel this power and to use it to create everything that you desire. We do not do this with the intention to degrade, confuse, or insult anyone. It is our intention to improve the overall vibe in this forum to bring it back to a place where people are truly helped and empowered to find their own path. However,this journey requires soul wrenching gut checking, this requires work on your own to raise your vibration. That is truly where the magic happens. I can give a huge example of my own growth. To me it is a success story, but some may not see the significance. I hadn't talked to my dad in over 10 years. I won't get into the old, unimportant story. Bottomline, I learned to forgive, live from love, and realize that our egos are what requires an apology. I thought one day, "wouldn't it be nice, if my dad was in my life again." and boom, he sent me a Facebook friend request and then he called me. We have talked but the circumstances of the past no longer matter. This would never have occurred without this journey.

Last edited by Cyclewoman1974 (7/23/2016 5:11 pm)

Cherished wrote:

I want to start by wishing you all a magical weekend. And I also wanted to explain why RR has been forced into a Time Out on here. He was told he is welcome to rejoin again when he is actually ready to take the LOA journey seriously. After all, this is an LOA Forum. Nothing more, nothing less. I invite and encourage you all to check out the new Forum Guidelines up top. I will copy the correspondence I have had with others regarding RR, as I want you all to understand what our position is here. RR was given several opportunities to attempt the climb, but refused to do the basic minimum of leaving his ex alone for more than 3 days.

I think you all have to agree that for RR, LOA is going to continue to be extraordinarily difficult from the position he is in. I implore you to consider what happens when you continually enable a person to ask the very same question more than 2000 times? It's a fundamental principle- they remain absolutely stuck in that same vibration. It is not helping RR in ANY way. Whatsoever. In real legal terms he is stalking his ex, who has begged him not to contact, repeatedly. For months. That in itself is definitely not something that any forum should be supporting or enabling. I sincerely hope that RR finds the help that he needs on another more appropriate platform.

I truly wish peace for RR, and I'm certain that now his avenues have been narrowed through exclusion from this forum, he will seek the support he truly needs. I thank you kindly for your incredible dedication in assisting RR. It is heartwarming that so many members here went waaaaaay above and beyond and over and under and around to try and raise his vibration. I'm tremendously proud of you all for your wonderful contributions.

All of this aside, I now ask if we may move forward in a much more positive manner? I want this forum to becone the wonderful LOA platform I know it can be. I'm here to create a fabulously fun, vortexy, inspiring home for you all to play in.. Who's moving forward with me?! 💖🌈

He's a hopeless case, or at least acts like one.  There are lots of posts of him chatting rubbish over and over like a broken record.  The help he needs isn't LOA based as he has talked about anxiety issues going back 3 years.  He really needs professional help and let's hope he gets it.  In the meantime, let's focus on the forum.

I've enjoyed giving contributions to other posters rather than posting questions of my own, and wish everyone well. 

who is RR? is that the full username?

Cherished you absolutely did the right thing and I commend you greatly for it. Until RR is vibrationally a match to the use of this forum, we will gladly move on without him for now. I do wish him all the best.

Onto forward movement.