WOW - this is so good and i agree completely -these are good thoughts. 
I manifested the breakup, i will manifest the getting back together. 
Trying to not think of the 3rd party is very hard for me but I am going to work really hard at it! 

Thanks! 

Hi Cynthia - 

I am really struggling. I feel like i have gone backwards. My Ex is barely responding to me again and even though he said he wanted to see me, when he came back out, seems like now that is not the case. How do i start over? Do I completely let go and give up? Start dating other people? Which is hard for me, since I am still so in love with Chris. I feel very hopeless, and I know that is a major block. I am just trying to be honest,, because I want some honest help. 

MiracleMaker wrote:

Hi suzy, indeed that is very true. The hardest thing to accept in this process is that it begins with SELF..and it is when we realize that, it is only then the entire picture is painted that there is so much more to just attracting an ex back. Your entire life unfolds infront of you and all for the better. You learn and you grow, if you allow the process to take full course. I think some people are scared to do this, maybe they are scared  of the answers it may reveal, but it is alllllll you and it can be an extremely beautiful journey if you allow it. 

Another thing I have noticed is that persons post in the forums seeking methods and techniques and trying everything under the sun like a magic wand without accepting the fact that first and foremost the issue of SELF needs to be addressed. I was a mess just like the next person believe me...lol but luckily I adapt quickly and kick in to survivor mode with a quickness. I chose not to be a victim anymore and it is when I finally believed in myself and my capabilities, was it then I was able to completely believe and trust the process AND it was then I was able to 'manifest my ex back' However even then I realized this goes so much deeper than this...this is literally the key to my entire life.

I have honestly enjoyed working on myself through this entire process, all my relationships have changed. Family, friends, my ex you name it! It breaks my heart to see some still spinning in circles not realizing the power has been and still is within them all along, but we all have our own roads to journey and we must always be willing to guide each other along the way. 
 

Wow! I am trying to work on myself now. i didnt realize how much self hate I was doing. I see myself catching it everyday! i want to have a magical re connection with my ex and have an incredible unbreakable connection for life.  What were some of the ways you overcame this and started to really love yourself?
 

Cynthia wrote:

Cristle26 wrote:

Cynthia - thank yo so much for replying! 
I have been trying to study and understand that "everyone is you pushed out" and it makes a lot of sense when i think about situations in my life. I see how my thoughts have caused situations, especially this breakup. 

I want to let go of the fear that he is truly gone forever, but I am so scared he will never reach out to me again. I have started to listen to Neville - thanks for the link. I have to admit, i have a hard time understanding it , but i will try. 
"Part of doing them correctly means to persevere, have faith, be patient, and give it all the time it needs, as well as completely ignoring anything that would deny that your desire is already yours. You've got to be singleminded about it, even what other people might call 'delusional', not swinging back and forth like a pendulum between despair and belief/faith." I have a hard time with this, when people ask me about it. I dont want to sound crazy.  any recommendations? 

Thanks for your help. It is so nice to talk to someone. I paid for Veronicas emails and text.. but still havent heard back, i understand she is very busy, but its great to be able to reach out and talk to live person. Especially when your feeling lost and hopeless. 

 

 
Don't talk about it or what you're doing to anybody. They don't need to know, and most people don't understand anyway. Neville's teachings are very simple. Imagination creates reality. What you imagine, if sustained, will become a fact. What you imagine is creating your experiences, and what happens in your imagination is really the only reality because imagining something is creative and precedes something's appearance in the outer world. We're all imagining and creating all the time whether we know it or not, so imagining what we desire and sustaining that for long enough is to consciously create what we desire. To live in the end of the wish fulfilled means to go right to the end r

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