Awesome!

(1) For me also my sense of humor.  I can be very funny!
(2) I'm faithful.  Unless it's an open relationship where we can see others or I know he's fine with me doing so, I won't cheat.
(3) I have curves that make some guys drool!
(4) I'm smart and educated, maybe that's intellectually stimulating for some guys? And I can talk and listen on a range of topics - and on that I AM a great listener.  I'm bubbly and chatty (can be) but I'm also a really great listener.
(5) I'm very kind.  I'm good of thinking of cool things to do.  Apparently I'm a great kisser. (And you know at ahem the stuff that can follow that!)

And I'm open minded.  

I've been told in the past things like I make a great girlfriend. 

He's a crush but can I join in?  This is a sweet idea :-)
1. Mine is a gorgeous one too.
2. He's never asked for nudes.  LOL.  A fair few guys have tried that.  I don't even think he asked for body shots.  He's just seen my face.  I really appreciate that he didn't ask for them. He apparently thinks I'm attractive and he prefers curvy girls (which as I told him, I am.) 
3. Calling me.  Not just texting but that he actually phoned me those times and we chatted.  It was REALLY REALLY nice.
4. Being open to a relationship with me.  MIGHT still be in future.  Not being one of those guys who JUST wants sex, even though he wanted that too, there was always more there so much like he actually was looking for a relationship too.
5. He did these sweet pauses on the phone like he was a little shy.  And I LOVED how he sounded SO EXCITED to meet me!  There's just something about him like compared to the guys I've met for a while.  It's not just that he's hot which he IS but comes across as having a really sweet romantic side and from what I can see he's always been honest with me.  And he's faithful.  Like some guys if they were attracted to someone they'd cheat but he's not like that.  He didn't want to meet me cos he met someone and wanted to see where it went.  Some guys would try to have both!  But I'm GLAD he's not like that cos if we DO get together in the future, I feel I can trust him a lot more!  Ok a bonus one is he has his own place.  The cheeky benefits of that aside heh heh guy's somehow got himself together enough to get his own place (I don't even have that LOL!) that's kinda admirable.  Esp as he's quite young. 

Fizzy you're amazing.  I read your replies and will re-read them.  
YES! I am open to the "someone better" coming along but not to settling for someone I'd be less attracted to or whatever else.
I had another birds before land with someone who has not been even a little flirty for 3 months suddenly try to seduce me LOL.

I love your replies so much.  Very helpful.

 

Fantastic news!

[size=125]Hi, Fizzy

First of all, WOW!  I love reading posts and replies by you and Sanshi and Cynthia I think you three are my favourite people to read.  So it's extra cool that I got a reply from YOU! 

I feel like I do want HIM.  I've tried general before and not got far but then again I have more resources now to help.  It's  more like I want to have a happy, loving, successful romantic relationship with him but I am also open to if it ends up being someone else but I'll have to like them at least as much.  But also, like I said (even though he's never texted me first which DOES bug me) I DO feel like there is something there on his end.  Unless he's just been blatantly lying.  

Everything you said helps.
ALL of it.

And I guess it doesn't even matter if he has felt it or not (although I think he has) because I've read about people where they have had the person not like them at all or even say mean things but then things changed!  

I don't know what else to say, really.
I needed to hear that.  All of it but especially that no just because I haven't had a relationship with him, doesn't mean I can't attract him.  Plus, like I said, there's a part of him that wants that.  My biggest concerns are that he doesn't text me first so WOULD he reach out to me if he got single in the future.  He's said that he would.  And that he hasn't met me.  But well, I think one way or the other this journey could be good for me and that's the main thing.  Let's just see :-) 

Anyway you're really encouraging me a lot. 

Sometimes I think about this ex I had, the last boyfriend I had 5 whole years ago.  I broke up with him, I had good reasons too, he was being flakey but then every time I bumped into him he acted like he wanted me back and sometimes he'd text me stuff.  We nearly got back together and my fears got in the way, like it was REALLY REALLY close to getting back together.  I'm over him now and he's with someone else and I'm happy for him and not