Hi

It makes me feel sad that you have had to go through these ups and downs. I don't think you have been treated fairly by him and you deserve his full commitment . Don't blame yourself as this only serves to make you upset and you don't deserve that. 

I have similar feelings about my specific person. I feel like I deserve better than the behaviour I get and its easy to blame myself as loa people say you create it. I suppose it all comes down to what you expect to get. Part of me cant believe he will ever make a move but I still hold on.

Ultimately I would give him space, more for you sake and see what happens. Time will tell. I would focus on building your confidence up. You deserve happiness. Never forget that. I know you're probably reading this, wanting him in your life but if you build yourself up and list all the great things about yourself and recognise your worth and beauty, good things will come to you. I hope this helps. Don't accept behaviour that makes you unhappy. 

I just wanted to share how much my mood has lifted just by doing some mirror work for a couple of days. I intend to keep going with it. 

I always find it hard to say nice things to myself and encourage myself when looking in the mirror. There's something about facing yourself that is quite hard to do but there is definitely benefit in it. I think if it is hard to do, is when you need it the most. 

Gaining acceptance from yourself is powerful.

It actually took me a while to even begin but I told myself good things and congratulated myself on how far ive come. I even apologised for the mistakes ive made that have made things harder for myself but the relief I felt afterward was great. I feel so much lighter today. 

This video inspired me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdSflwclew8 
 

Hi

I just wanted to ask advice. There is a man I like that I met while walking my dog. There is definitely an attraction between us. It has been a few years and I don't know how long I can go on like this. I want him to ask me out but he never does. I have visualised and made intentions, got coaching sessions and decided to stop trying to make it happen.

It doesn't seem like a lot to ask for but if you can manifest anything i dont know why i cant do this. As soon as I decided I was going to stop trying to bump into him and see what happened, he broke his ankle and wasn't out anyway. I would love an opportunity to get to know him better. I saw him the other day, as I was driving and let him across the road with his dog. He looked really pleased to see me and waved. It made me happy but it doesn't seem to progress. It is a never ending cycle of little things without a breakthrough. i get so frustrated sometimes but i know i have to keep the faith. It shoudnt be such a struggle. How can i make it easy. I feeel like if i didnt want it, it would be a lot better. 

What should I do?

Thanks for your advice

Thanks, yeah I can understand that better now. It's all about perspective. I'm definitely gonna read up more on Neville!!

Thank you for your advice. I hope he's not gay but i don't think he is haha. I'd love to get married but going on dates to get to know him would be a start. Just an opportunity to talk would be great. How do you think I should imagine it? Have you used Neville since then?
Did it work out for you? xx