So for me I know I’m in it when it just feels right. Not exactly excitement. I’m happy, but it just feels normal not leaving me all jittery. I always knew Aust and I were going to get married from the moment I met him. It’s annoying to hear but self love made a difference. I feel pretty and like a wonderful person, quite the catch. I put Aust on a pedestal for years and that’s why things never aligned. Once I felt like an equal he chased me. We actually broke up briefly last year. Timing was off. City was wrong. He wasn’t working or being supportive. It kicked him in the ass and he bought us a house and got an amazing job because he wanted to make this work for real. Not every journey is 100% smooth and I trusted that.

I know I haven’t been here in forever. I suppose when you get what you want you sort of stop coming on here as much but I wanted to sprinkle hope in someone’s day.

Aust and I bought a beautiful house together a month ago! He’s got an amazing job and I started my own successful business. We’re wanting to get married in the next couple of years. This is coming from a guy that told me a few years ago that he was never gonna love me and a bunch of other horrible things, didn’t want to settle down or get a job.

I’m really, really happy. It all came together when I focused on myself and not him so much. Anyway, good luck to you all 💖

Meg2222 wrote:

Wow this is amazing! You have done so well I am really happy for you! May I ask what worked best for you?? Congrats again, that ring will be coming soon!! xxx

 

I literally cut him off. Some bad stuff went down with his family last March and I cut everyone out of my life, zero contact, for three months. I stopped thinking about him, then he texted me asking to see me. We've been inseparable since then. We've been together for about 8 months now. My case was extreme but I dealt with someone that had addiction issues and it caused us problems we wouldn't have normally had. Basically I let it go in a serious way. Once I did that Aust went to therapy, cleaned up, and we got back together. He's also my soulmate though so I am extremely forgiving with him in ways I wouldn't be with other people.

I'm not into affirmations or visualizing. It made me obsessive, personally. I always manifest when I either forget it or just believe it's mine and don't worry about it.

Thank you all so much

awesomepeace wrote:

I haven't posted on here for months. But I read this and had to say how happy I am for you. Wishing you even more happiness. Xx

 
Aww thanks so much. Hope you are well