I just wanted to say, after feeling heartbroken for about two months because my person replaced me with someone else, after continuously creeping/stalking his social media, worrying about the replacement girl, over analyzing every detail, feeling sorry for myself, obsessing over getting him back and thinking to myself where did it all go wrong... I finally stopped

I found a true love for reading books.. I've always been a book reader when I was a kid and then stopped for some reason. In the past week I read three books and It gives me so much life and excitement. I just finished The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho and it's such a such a beautiful little book (highly recommend!). I'm also starting a new gym routine and felt super good and strong after my workout today. I'm enjoying this time with family. 

For those of you struggling, please find something that gives you joy. I was stressed at first and couldn't focus for long but after practicing and reading more pages every night, I gained inner calmness. Try a new book, workout, bake a holiday recipe, reconnect with an old friend, LIVE YOUR LIFE. You are your own source of happiness. You deserve someone who treats you like the queen that you are.

This is a random post but just felt like sharing . Please feel free to message me if you ever need to talk to someone! I'm always happy to listen to anyone.

Hey everyone - Just wanted to give an update on the situation! I've been in NC with my person (I'll refer to him as A) for a month, and while in NC I read up a lot on LoA, specifically RS. It wasn't until the second-third week of NC that I started actually APPLYING what I read. So I was visualizing myself doing romantic things with A. A few days ago, I decided to reach out to A and wish him a happy thanksgiving, because I did that with other people I care about. We had a very positive but short text conversation, he asked how I was doing and he seemed eager to know, both of his questions had two ?? lol. Anyway, after that I heard about Amargi's book Mind Power Seduction. I was SO interested in it, I read the entire thing one night before going to bed. And this week where I wasn't too tired but ready to fall asleep, I did some hardcore Magic Touch. I was enjoying it so much and it felt extremely real. At one point I kinda felt a touch on my chin, and it really freaked me out so I snapped out of it. It felt easy for me to visualize because I had intimate moments with A (we only dated for about two months for reference), and I could remember the details. So my visualization were memories combined with additional things that I wanted. Two times I did it, I did MT and then I fell asleep after I was done, and it transitioned into a DREAM. I dreamt about him all night lol!  A and I are very athletic people and we like to lift weights. During the NC phase, I would see him at the gym but avoided him because I didn't want to get distracted from my workout, so I wouldn't be in the section where he was. We never talked to each other or even looked at each other. We acted like total strangers and didn't say a word. BUT today while I was doing my workout, he walked by, waved at me and also smiled! I was so surprised. I waved back, smiled back, and continued my workout with a huge grin on my face lol. I think its the MT that's working!

I met a guy in August that I instantly fell in love with. From the moment we met, I knew I'd be with him. We were dating for several months up until things started getting a bit different in mid October.. I was (and still am) head over heels for him, however, 3 weeks ago he told me that he doesn't feel the same way about me and he was being distant/ weird because he wasn't sure how to say it to me. Naturally I was crushed and heartbroken, but I told him I understood his feelings and appreciate his honesty. And that is how it ended. I did not contact him for the rest of the week, and the following week I came across the LOA and the 25 day challenge. I had an absolutely great time with the first week of the challenge, stayed positive, thought loving things about him, as I still do love and care about him. I visualized so many things.... it put me in a great mood.

Yesterday was my birthday and I was hopeful he would reach out to me, but he didn't. I was overcome by sadness and negativity. I expected more but was disappointed at the lack. Now I feel like I've taken 100 steps back. I blocked him off my all social media because the thought of him and his pictures make me feel unwanted, upset, and hurt. I feel lost and not sure what to do. I still want him back in my life but I don't think he cares.