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Started with a bang... but relapsing..
I met a guy in August that I instantly fell in love with. From the moment we met, I knew I'd be with him. We were dating for several months up until things started getting a bit different in mid October.. I was (and still am) head over heels for him, however, 3 weeks ago he told me that he doesn't feel the same way about me and he was being distant/ weird because he wasn't sure how to say it to me. Naturally I was crushed and heartbroken, but I told him I understood his feelings and appreciate his honesty. And that is how it ended. I did not contact him for the rest of the week, and the following week I came across the LOA and the 25 day challenge. I had an absolutely great time with the first week of the challenge, stayed positive, thought loving things about him, as I still do love and care about him. I visualized so many things.... it put me in a great mood.
Yesterday was my birthday and I was hopeful he would reach out to me, but he didn't. I was overcome by sadness and negativity. I expected more but was disappointed at the lack. Now I feel like I've taken 100 steps back. I blocked him off my all social media because the thought of him and his pictures make me feel unwanted, upset, and hurt. I feel lost and not sure what to do. I still want him back in my life but I don't think he cares. 
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Re: Started with a bang... but relapsing..
Hey there! 
I'm going to assume this breakup was recent, If I am wrong, I apologise. If you're hurting right now and trying to manifest it'll seem like a struggle, so it's better for you to take some time for yourself and focus on feeling good again, for you.
Focus on self love, feeling good and once you're at the point where you feel ready to manifest go for it!
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Hey lovelies, thanks so much for the responses! It's been a week since I posted that initial message, and I've been doing so much better this week. I really felt happier and more positive, focused on myself! I cleaned out my whole room and did my nails (which I never do), and just made an effort to take better care of myself and be happy in the space that I'm in. I've also spent a lot of time with friends and instantly felt more loved and content with my life!
I unblocked him from my instagram, and that automatically makes him unfollow me. My account is private and he cant see my posts. But i felt unblocking him made me feel better because it let go of negative emotions! I still have him on snapchat, and he always looks at my stories. He looks at every single one of them! I've also been getting a lot of signs lately, I run into him a lot at the gym, and I ran into him on campus today too. I don't look at him or make eye contact, I just focus on my own self and workout. I also see his roommate a lot! I'm still in college, and I remember running into his roommate a lot before I even met my guy. And now i see his roommate again! Also funny thing is... I manifested TWO TEXTS from my old exes! They are the wrong exes, and I haven't talked to them in MONTHS. And two of them reached out to me this week!! Isn't that crazy? Of course I don't care about those exes, I only care about this current one... I was thinking of messaging him next week wishing him a happy thanksgiving, because I do it from a place of happiness and love. Should I do that? What do you guys think? 
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Hey everyone - Just wanted to give an update on the situation! I've been in NC with my person (I'll refer to him as A) for a month, and while in NC I read up a lot on LoA, specifically RS. It wasn't until the second-third week of NC that I started actually APPLYING what I read. So I was visualizing myself doing romantic things with A. A few days ago, I decided to reach out to A and wish him a happy thanksgiving, because I did that with other people I care about. We had a very positive but short text conversation, he asked how I was doing and he seemed eager to know, both of his questions had two ?? lol. Anyway, after that I heard about Amargi's book Mind Power Seduction. I was SO interested in it, I read the entire thing one night before going to bed. And this week where I wasn't too tired but ready to fall asleep, I did some hardcore Magic Touch. I was enjoying it so much and it felt extremely real. At one point I kinda felt a touch on my chin, and it really freaked me out so I snapped out of it. It felt easy for me to visualize because I had intimate moments with A (we only dated for about two months for reference), and I could remember the details. So my visualization were memories combined with additional things that I wanted. Two times I did it, I did MT and then I fell asleep after I was done, and it transitioned into a DREAM. I dreamt about him all night lol! A and I are very athletic people and we like to lift weights. During the NC phase, I would see him at the gym but avoided him because I didn't want to get distracted from my workout, so I wouldn't be in the section where he was. We never talked to each other or even looked at each other. We acted like total strangers and didn't say a word. BUT today while I was doing my workout, he walked by, waved at me and also smiled! I was so surprised. I waved back, smiled back, and continued my workout with a huge grin on my face lol. I think its the MT that's working!
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