Do you have any things you tell yourself (affirmations or reminders) when you feel like it's not working? Also, how did you get out of the feeling of lack? Did you just take your focus off that subject and put it onto something positive? And in doing that the resistance faded away and allowed your desire to manifest? 

I think if I completely take my focus off the resistance I have, then the resistance is still there and affecting my manifestation I'm just not consciously focusing on it. I feel like if I have to tackle the resistance head-on somehow. Just so you know, my resistance is that he & I can't and won't be together because he's with her. This use to be a huge block for me. At first I didn't think it was going to be possible. I thought my situation was hopeless. Now I think it's very possible if I do the work, but I'm doing all the "steps" and he still hasn't broken up with her and come back to me, so my resistance is still there.

I've been at this for a while. I didn't have any movement, until about a week ago I decided to friend request him on Instagram. I know I did it out of fear, but as soon as I recognized that I just let it go. He ended up accepting my request. A couple days later, I get a notification that he followed me, but for some reason I wasn't following him anymore (he must've blocked me). Anyway, I re-friend requested him and he accepted. Idk what any of this means and I'm not trying to figure out the meaning. I just don't know where to go from here. 

He's still in a relationship and posting picture of the two of them. I haven't had any communication with him for months. I was feeling great these past few weeks and focusing more on other aspects of my life. Now, I'm starting to think it's just not going to happen for me. I do want him to be happy and maybe he's happier with her. I don't know what else I can do. 

There have been some great success stories lately, so I thought maybe someone could give me some advice/encouragement on what you did when you felt low or like it wasn't going to happen for you.

I've manifested minor things.. parking spaces, green lights. I've also manifested dog sitting for my neighbor countless times. I manifested $50 two days ago. I manifested a hookah yesterday. I've manifested "big, impossible" things when I didn't know about LOA (exact car I wanted, my own apartment exactly as I had visualized it, job). Whether I knew about LOA or not everything came about the same way. I knew what I wanted. I was relaxed. I believed it to be possible on some level. 

I've even manifested him back twice (didn't know about LOA). I know what works. Feel like you have it, believe you can have it, don't worry about it too much, then in some way it happens. It's this subject that trips me up. I see my obstacles and lack of results and it makes me want to try harder. I think I'm trying too hard to make it happen. I want evidence. I want proof. I want a text or something that shows me I'm on the way. 

Any tips on relaxing?

Personally, I don't think it matters what the affirmations are or how many times you say them. What matters are the feelings you feel when you say them. The purpose of an affirmation is to help you better embody the state of already having your desire. So, just make sure you feel positive, empowered, joyful etc. when you say them!
 

Shayne wrote:

He checked my snap story!!!! Yasssss!

oh my gosh! congratulations!! you intended it and it happened