I finally decided to really do the work and change my mind.. i know how to write affirmations for school and money and this kind of areas, but i'm also determined to manifest my specific guy and i guess i need to change my beliefs about him a little bit. I feel like i'm better each day in reaching the vibration of being his loved girlfriend, mostly because when doubts starts to creep in, i "daydream" about him huging me and saying some sweets things, but i also have some thoughts about him being a person who doesn't want a relationship now and so on. So what i would like to know is.. is it enough to write down some affirmations about him (each affirmation at least 20 times) and then read them several times a day? Will i start to think those thoughts automatically? I never worked with affirmations before so i don't really know what it will do and what else have i do to change my belief system.