It all boils down to this: my thoughts have the power to create reality. Every. Single. Thought. I would include words. So please watch out your thoughts and words. Speak and think only of things that you want or that are good for you. It's the basic principle.

I allocate time for my RS and visualization. My rule is as long as I can visualize, in a relaxed state, and can accompany my visualizations with feelings, that's fine. No need for a script. In fact, you can be as creative as you can.  I'm also a meditator so I am so used to quieting my mind and going into a relaxed state almost immediately. I guess this takes practice. If you can visualize vividly (like I do), that's a plus because then you can control the images in your mind.

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I thought about this, too. I am debating whether to continue this or not. I certainly don;t want him to go crazy over me or waste his time. There's no future with me, and no way I'll be attracted to him again. I guess to undo is to imagine them in a friendly way, and think for them. You can imagine them thinking, "No, I am not in love with her, she's just a friend. I must respect the boundaries and just be her good friend." Something like that. 

This is kind of off topic so I apologize, but on every loa forum I see.  I see mainly women have luck using RS and other forms of LOA to get their guys back, but I don't see many guys having luck getting their girls back.   Is this because most guys are very impatient? And don't let it come?   

Like RS and other techniques work on women just like they do on men, right?

Cherished wrote:

Guys just remember it's not a specific technique that will work like magic, it is your VIBRATION while you're doing any technique that will create the change. So don't get hung up on copying exactly what someone else does. Just close your eyes, relax, imagine them right there, and have an intimate conversation/moment with them. Believe you are actually with their inner being at that moment- because you ARE. And know that they love you and are on their way back. It already exists, they are just waiting for you to reach the vibration of the love you are seeking. For then you are a match xx

Hi,need help here.I am confused if i am deep enough in mind ie my subconscious mind while doing PWD/BHD. Because at times,i see a few other people or incidents even after deep relaxation.Does that mean i am not fully relaxed yet? Also, i am not sure if i am connecting well through my third eye. I do feel vibrations or some heaviness at my third eye when i focus on the point. But i dont know if i am sending a ray of light to his third eye the way it should be done. Need some guidance here