Selfloveiskey wrote:

Yup definitely can sense your energy my guy came running when I just focused on loving me. And it's such a great feeling for trust the universe and love you. I'm going out today treating me to a coffee and just trying on clothes . I feel so good cause I lost 6lbs love working out now lol

Great! Not sure what am I doing wrong. I'm concentrating on loving myself...doing all sorts of things to make and keep me happy. But I've no news from my sweetheart even now...not that I'm sitting and waiting for it but as I read the success stories here I thought of mentioning. In my own way I've let go...like I'm not even doing any visualisations, affirmations anymore. I'm watching movies which I wanted to...I'm reading books...eating things which I want to...going on walks, dancing...everything. I broke the no contact rule about a week back by messaging him, after almost 2months. He didn't talk much at that time but said he is gonna call me the next day, which never happened. So, it did disappoint me and I spent some time retrospecting on what had happened between us. Till now I was blaming myself for the breakup but now I realised that he is equally responsible. I'll not say that I don't want us to be back together, I do. We did have something special...I was laughing more when I was with him. But I don't deserve this treatment...we broke up on a chat & even then he had said he will call but never did. I did deserve a decent goodbye. Not complaining but this whole week of him not calling again has left me thinking if this'll ever happen. I've doubts now. I did the 25days challenge...affirmations..RS...visualisations...and still didn't get a call which he promised he will.
I think I'll just let go...let go and do nothing and wait for Universe to send me  what I deserve. Him or not him! LoA doesn't work for me😟

That's amazing! All the best!

Hope you are feeling better now.

80saeaak wrote:

I just wanted to share my joy. My son had his first child and I was blessed to be invited to watch them bring a new life into this world. I'm so grateful.

A big congratulations and loads of blessings to the little one!

LearningToDetach wrote:

If i were you i'd be really happy and grateful that he did reply, and there were a bit of back and forth. He could have just said "yes i'm fine" without asking how you are, or he could have just totally ignored the message.

As for your question... I have the same question too. And i have asked my friend before. She said whatever makes you feel better, do it.

She said if you can do living in the end, then do it but sometimes we're just hoping and not living in the end.... So letting go is usually the easier way.

Im stuck because i can't let go.

Oh I am very happy about the little exchange of dialogue we had. But got disappointed the next day when he didn't call. And therefore this realization that what I had been doing till now didn't work.
I'm going to let go now....live my life and be happy.

I'll really appreciate if someone can respond to my post. I really want to understand things better .