| Law of Attraction Discussion » Recent Discovery » 7/08/2017 5:41 pm |
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I was watching YouTube videos and decided to re-watch a video called "Manifesting a Specific Person Is Really About YOU" by illuminatingjoy. I've watched this video several times before, but I must be in a receiving mode because it completely resonated with me.
This entire time I've been feeling better not only because of self love, appreciation/gratitude, viewing all circumstances with ease, but also because I strongly believed that he (my love) was going to do something different (miss me, think about me, text me, call me, profess his love for me, etc). When in reality I need to change that part of the equation and feel better because I don't need him to do any of those things. Others may have come to this conclusion already, but for me it's mind blowing. I've been going at this all wrong.
Bottom line: what I truly want is to be desired by someone that I desire (and I really desire my love). I've identified what that looks like to me and the feelings associated with it. That is what I'll only focus on from now on.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » I'm Done.. Giving Up » 7/08/2017 9:16 am |
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Denimchicken wrote:I keep reading it and it's true that you get what you are, what you vibrate rather than get what you want.
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If you're asking the Universe (your higher power) for love and that's what you vibrate - you will get it. If you're asking for love from just this one person then you're not at high vibration - you're attached to this one outcome.
I've been thinking about this a lot recently and Agnes talks about it in one of the videos. If you're attached to this one person/outcome then you're saying to the Universe (or your higher power or whatever) that you want or need this to be happy. That you're not able to be completely happy without it. That YOU are not enough to make you happy, that you need something external. So that's a block.
I think that's the stumbling block for a lot of people. We tell ourselves 'I feel great, I'm happy, I love myself' but if we're still holding out for one thing/person then that's not completely true is it?. If we're really happy and love ourselves, why do we still want someone who by all their words and actions are rejecting us? We're putting out to the Universe that ourselves are not enough - we need another person to complete us, make us happy, fulfil our emotional needs.
And in an Agnes vid I'm thinking about, they talk about how there are no secrets in the Universe. You can do all the external stuff but if your underlying energy is still 'but I want/need this person or thing to be happy/complete' then that's a low vibration and not an attractive one to the person you're focused on because they pick up on your energy whether you're seeing them or not and whether they know it or not.
I think that's why so many 'other' people turn up. Because you have raised your vibration and you're projecting confidence and love and emotional stability. But to the specific person you're still attached to your energy is 'I want/need you, I don't want anyone else, I'm miserable without you, I need something FROM you to make ME happy,
| Help me align please... 🙈 » What Do You Think? » 7/08/2017 9:10 am |
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Oh. My. Gosh. THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH! I had no idea that I was still so attached. I've done all of this work on myself, but haven't let go.
I agree. don't like the idea of "someone better" either but that's what all of the blogs and gurus preach, so I was adopting it because I thought that's what I was suppose to do. I've emailed Veronica a couple of times. Her advice was to not give him a second thought (basically completely detach). I thought this was good, until it didn't feel good to do so and everyone says "our emotions are our guide". But now I know it's something I have to do. I'm realizing that holding on isn't healthy at all. It's time for me to completely pour myself into my other goals.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » What Do You Think? » 7/07/2017 4:57 pm |
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Dan2015 wrote:
I think that's what problems people have with loa. There's so many conflicting information. From what I've realized is, you kind of have to decide what's best for you. Loa stuff is hard to ask advice on. Some people will tell you there's nothing that can't be done and then others will tell you limiting beliefs
I agree with you completely. I have so much information floating around in my head that I've gotten from different YouTubers and articles I've read online. So, I don't know what sense to make of my situation. I have a two theories floating in my head: maybe I've gotten to a point where I'm vibrating higher than him and we're no longer a match or maybe he's seriously rejecting all the good vibes I've been sending, this isn't meant to be and I'm supposed to forget about him so someone better can come into my life. Who knows!
Also, most LOA "teachers" say our emotions are our guide and feeling good means we're on the right path. I feel great overall! I feel great when I think about being with him and I feel absolutely horrible when I think about not being with him/letting him go completely. But he's still not here. I have no idea what the heck is going on, but once I do I'll make sure to let yall know.
| Law of Attraction Discussion » Things I've learned » 7/07/2017 4:37 pm |
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:Dan2015 wrote:
Our minds are really powerful, especially our subconscious minds. We can think we are being positive or having belief, etc in something But a lot of tines. We have bias views about ourselves. So we could really think we're having faith, but know we aren't and you never know what limiting beliefs your subconscious mind has
So how can you work to overcome those if you don't know what they are? Or do we continue to unconsciously sabotage ourselves all the time and then worry why we don't get what we want?
For me, I keep believing that my significant other loves me and wants to be with me. A few weeks after I started seriously using LOA to manifest him back I found out that he started seeing someone new. This absolutely crushed me, but it also made me realize that I had a subconscious belief that I was second best. I say that because I think a lot of the time we don't know what our subconscious beliefs are until a situation or experience comes into our life and reveals it. At that point, we either have the option to let it defeat us or recognize it and change it for the better.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » What Do You Think? » 7/07/2017 3:46 pm |
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I feel great and I'm completely okay if something better comes along. I'm very thankful for finding out about LOA and using the principles of it to get to this happy place. So, you're saying that since he hasn't manifested the universe is basically saying that this desire isn't meant to be?
| Help me align please... 🙈 » What Do You Think? » 7/06/2017 2:19 pm |
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unicornsandrainbows wrote:
Just chiming in with absolutely nothing enlightening to say, only that I feel you on the frustration and anger and confusion. There isn't one thought here that hasn't gone through my head. As for myself---my head has given up and is trying to move on; my heart doesn't know how.
This seems to be a very common emotional state unfortunately. I don't want you to give up lol. I want all of us to succeed at this. It's possible. I know it is. We all have this desire for a reason. If moving on feels right to you, then move on, but if not don't give up! No situation is impossible. Anything is possible.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » What Do You Think? » 7/06/2017 2:17 pm |
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sunny wrote:
First, the universe doesn't try to communicate with you. Your external world is nothing but a reflection of what is going on inside you. And you are in complete control.
Second, watch Agnes Vivarelli's videos on YouTube. She offers such insight when it comes to attracting people and answers a bunch of questions.Oh really? I didn't know that. Thanks for the insight! That makes me feel a lot better.
I believe I'm in control as well. That's the frustrating part because I can't seem to figure out what I need to be doing differently to have him come back. I want to love him in my physical reality. Right now I'm really focused on my goals and loving myself. I just keep having faith and surrendering to the universe.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » What Do You Think? » 7/06/2017 12:28 pm |
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That does make a lot of sense. For a few days I've felt like my inner job has been done. I don't know what more I can do. Maybe there are things that I'm unaware of that have to happen before my desire manifests in reality. Thanks for that tip! I should just concentrate on things other than him and trust that the universe is doing it's thing. Thanks again!
| Help me align please... 🙈 » What Do You Think? » 7/06/2017 12:03 pm |
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alicewrites I'm sooo with you on being frustrated! I was intensely frustrated for about 3 or 4 days. I didn't know whether to cry, give up, or just go back to being sad and hopeless. Eventually, I just gave up on that emotion. There are so many contradictory teachings on this subject out there it's hard to know what to do. I don't know if I should give up because the universe is telling me I can't have him or if this current reality is just a projection of my past thoughts. Also, Agnes frequently says that everyone is us pushed out. If that's the case I have no idea what's going on with me that's creating this situation. I literally feel freaking amazing! I'm so excited for my future but he's NO WHERE to be found.
I have zero interest in the guys that have been approaching me. I actually find it a little funny that I'm getting this attention now. I think it's because of the LOA and consciously being aware of what I'm projecting, but if that's the case my love would be here by now. I'll definitely keep everyone informed and even when my desire does manifest I'm not going to leave this forum because I want to help all of the future me's and you's out there Sending you lots of light and love! We'll get through this!
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