I probably shouldn't say anything, as I haven't got my love back either. Also, I'm pretty pissed off. But I'm getting so angry with this whole thing because Law of Attraction basically tells us, that we can have ANYTHING we desire. And then let's count how often we are told that "maybe Universe is trying to communicate with you" I'm seriously mad, because it's either one or the other! It's either me who's creating my life or it all has been already set for me and I can't do anything about it. I would seriously like to believe that I'm the one who's in charge. I also have a lot of evidence and do believe in the loa, but the amount of people saying that they are so aligned and still got nothing is overwhelming for me... it seems like not everyone gets what they want and I can't understand why would that be.  I'm so sorry for being so negative, but I feel like a crazy person and can't find my inner peace.

Answering to your question, many claim that the moment they "gave up", something good happend. It was either their ex coming back, or someone new, who changed everything. According to that it could b a good idea to give up. I love my guy and feel like we are soulmates and - of course I can't know for sure - I feel like I wouldn't want to give up, because I don't see myself with anybody else, But if you're getting more interested in meeting new people and dating, maybe that's what you shall try. I hope you'll keep us informed I so much want to believe in miracles, it starts to drive me insane... i feel like I need to give myself a break.

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Lots of love to you sweetheart! We're doing this!
Also, the next thing I'm so often confused about is, what you called as projecting. Because some teachings tell us, that what we see outside is what's going on inside of us. But the other ones clearly tell us, that every single thing needs time, and it's kind of like a domino effect (Veronica talks about it a lot). And of course it makes a lot of sense, but then how do we know if our inner job is done? They say that our feelings are our guidance system. That's why I think, that as long as you're feeling good and you concentrate on other things than your love, you are on a good path. "Follow your feelings, they know the way". But that is just me guessing what i think makes a lot of sense

I'm with you both on this topic. I find myself becoming confused and disillusioned which in itself doesn't help.

First, the universe doesn't try to communicate with you. Your external world is nothing but a reflection of what is going on inside you. And you are in complete control.

Second, watch Agnes Vivarelli's videos on YouTube. She offers such insight when it comes to attracting people and answers a bunch of questions.

unicornsandrainbows wrote:

Just chiming in with absolutely nothing enlightening to say, only that I feel you on the frustration and anger and confusion.  There isn't one thought here that hasn't gone through my head.  As for myself---my head has given up and is trying to move on; my heart doesn't know how.

This seems to be a very common emotional state unfortunately. I don't want you to give up lol. I want all of us to succeed at this. It's possible. I know it is. We all have this desire for a reason. If moving on feels right to you, then move on, but if not don't give up! No situation is impossible. Anything is possible.