If we look bigger picture on question if it is morally wrong to attract specific person. If it is here  some doubt or whatever we all be single. When you attract someone in your life you don't ask why or am i overide his/her will? You just take your chance. Her is same story. For me morally is just a word which was invented to appologise some mistake.

Free will is so small that we could say that there is no free will.It is just two words which don't mean anything.

IMHO,  I believe it is both possible and ethical, BUT only if the intentions are based on love, compassion, happiness, healing, learning, ....  I agree with thoose lines
 

Love is Real wrote:

you have to ask yourself if you think he could be happier with someone else.  that's up to you, isn't it?  if you think you can create a fulfilling relationship for both of you, I bet you can do that, if that's what you want.

for me..... there is absolutely no doubt in my mind that NO ONE in this world can make her as happy as I can.  We have been together 30 YEARS!  No one knows her like I do.  No one knows that spot on her back that needs to be rubbed every night.  I screwed up because my mind questioned the relationship and I created the split up.  so now I have to create the reconciliation.   it's the challenge of my life.  but one thing I know.   I can make her happy like no one else can on this planet and she is going to be SOOOOO glad she came back to me.

Standing aplause. BRAVO. You can do it!

Pink wrote:

Leli wrote:

Love is Real wrote:

Here is my two cents. And I am in the same situation as you.

1. What is your intention? You said that you ate doing it because you love the person. Is it really just because just you love them and you want it for yourself? Or is it also because you want to make THEM happy? If you believe you can make them happy and that is your intention I think that isa noble thing and very different than just wanting it for yourself regardless of what is best for them. For me, my desire is as much about pleasing her and making her feel loved as my own fulfillment.

2. I have told myself, and the universe, and her soul that when she comes back, if ayer some time she is not happy and glad she returned, then I will let her go. So my desire is not to take her against her will and keep her trapped. I just want one more chance to show her what it feels like to be loved. If I am wrong andi am unable to make her happyi will let her go. So, she maintains her free will.

3. You said you feel uneasy about it. You have to get past that. What you are doing is based on love. If your love is pure, There is nothing wrong with love. You have to feel good about what you're doing.

Everybody choose their ways, but what i can read from this post in something what is opposite of LOA. Let me explain. In this post is almost everything based on her happines. So you put her in your pedestal, but if you want attract someone you must be on that pedestal. So in your world you are the king or God and everybody must do everything to make this king happy. So here goes just for your happines. It mean that even she will be unhappy, she must be with you? NO. If you create your relationships with her in happines than it must be like that, soo she will be very happy with you. That is all. Everything in this world is just imagintaion.

1. It is very nice to hear that somebody want other people be happy, but you must know that you must love yourself first and then ot

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