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Just wanted to get everyone's thought on this whether this question has ever popped up in your mind? If it's morally/ethically to attract someone like an ex when they've told you to leave them alone, they don't want anything to do with you...etc?
I recalled reading from Neville somewhere that says "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".
So I asked myself, if I had broken up with someone, would I be okay if they used LOA on me to attract me back? To be honest, for me it's a no. I would not feel good if they used LOA to attract me back.
However, loa also says we attract everything. So that means I must have attract the BU then if I did attract it then why can't I not undo it?
That's where I'm confused. I know for a fact that loa works but for me it's the whole moral issues that I cannot get past.
Would love if anyone could provide some input.
Thank you and much love
Last edited by Pink (4/02/2016 1:46 am)
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We have a whole thread on it somewhere, I'll look.. and in the videos Veronica discusses Free Will. Basically, LOA is working whether you agree with it or not. So either you Lucerne create by default based on your random thoughts, or you direct your thoughts to deliberately create the life that you desire. It's a no brainer which one I choose lol π
Also, you attracted them in the first place and they attracted you. Do you feel violated of your free will because he attracted YOU? No. It was a natural progression, yes?
Last edited by Cherished (4/02/2016 3:22 am)
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The truth is we are influenced everyday by other people and our experiences. This is what happens when you are NOT AWARE of your thoughts or when you are living unconsciously.Β
The only wrong thing about attracting someone through your thoughts (remote influence, RS, vis) is when you have the intention to harm them.
As to free will, it only exists if their degree of consciousness is higher than yours and if they WILLFULLY fight your remote influences using also the power of their mind.Β
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Thank you Cherished and Vera for your reply. I understand where you are both coming from.
I guess part of me still feel uneasy or just doesn't feel right to attract him back into my life though I wholeheartedly want him to be in my life. And of course attracting him is not to harm him, I only want him because I love him.
I guess this is something that I will need to think about and listen to myself (intuition) on how I really feel using LOA to attract someone.
Thank you very much ladies and thank you for always being so inspirational:D
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I've come back to thank you all again.
I've come to the realization that whether morally right or wrong we are always attracting people things circumstances events to us anyways depending on how we think or feel. What's good for one person may be bad for another. It's really how to react/think of it that matters. To conclude, I've realized that LOA is a way of living life and it's not something that we can avoid whether we like it or not. So it's important to make the most out of it. That is be happy stay positive and feel good. Of course there will be moments of down times but I believe they are just reminders for how awesome your life actually is! and like someone else said in this forum it's normal to not feel good but you will always bounce back to happy and positivity afterwards!)
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Don't worrie about if it is moral or ethic or not. Even Neville use this method to bring his second wife in his life. If i remember right, this woman was married when he start usin LOA on her.
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Leli wrote:
Don't worrie about if it is moral or ethic or not. Even Neville use this method to bring his second wife in his life. If i remember right, this woman was married when he start usin LOA on her.
That's interesting! Because I read somewhere else that it was his second wife who attracted him when going general to attract a mate. And that mate turned out to be Neville!
But I do find it interesting why he never suggest ppl to go specific.
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If i remember corectly he did it for specific person because in one lecture he said that his friends ask him same question that you have. If it is right or ethic to do this. His answer was that we all play this game and only people who know real rules are winner. So in other words life is just game. If you know how to play it you are the winner. In this lecture he even say that we must be specific. He talks about stuff be he give a point that we must be specific. If i will found his lecture i will post it here.
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Pink wrote:
Leli wrote:
Don't worrie about if it is moral or ethic or not. Even Neville use this method to bring his second wife in his life. If i remember right, this woman was married when he start usin LOA on her.
That's interesting! Because I read somewhere else that it was his second wife who attracted him when going general to attract a mate. And that mate turned out to be Neville!
But I do find it interesting why he never suggest ppl to go specific.
Here are his lines :
- Awareness seems to be scattered, as everyone on the outside is aware. But no one needs ask another to aid in the change of his world if he changes it on the inside. If another is necessary to bring about the change, he will - with or without his consent. You do not have to single out the individual to play the part in bringing about the change you have imagined. He will play his part if necessary because we all intermingle. All you have to do is stand at the end, from within.
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Love Neville Goddard! Xx