It's not about planting ideas in someone's head. It's about creating a wonderful reality that inspires love and joy and happiness in yourself and your partner. You create every moment of your life. So you can either do it deliberately, or you can allow other thoughts to control you and create FOR you.

Lanie Stevens wrote:

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Women and men control each other all the time by acting the way the other person wants or looking a certain way to attract the other person.  It is controlling them if that is out of the ordinary for you and you're doing it for the sole purpose of getting what you want.  PW is done with love and intention.  The reason you hear him say the things you desire to hear is because it ignites emotion in you and that is what manifesting is all about.  The emotion and gratitude is what attracts what you desire to you.  He says the things to you because he feels them.  Hope this helps!

Big Hugs,
Lanie

AMEN !!!! 

Lanie Stevens wrote:

Everythingisbeautiful wrote:

Hi all -
Things are going smoothly with my love and I. I affirmed what I wanted, scripted and focused on myself. For a change, I started doing PW this week and I feel like he's responding extremely well to it. I've read Lanie's explanation of it but I guess I am uncomfortable with "controlling" him. Is this mind control? Or does it work because of the Universal Mind/what I think, he thinks? At first I thought it was no different than affirming, believing and recreating my story, but I don't know. When he says or does things based on PW, is he really feeling them and saying it genuinely or is he doing it solely because I planted the ideas in his head?

It's not about mind control but if you think about it we control other's thoughts and opinions all the time -- we just don't recognize and acknowledge it.  When you think "he is a cheater" or "he doesn't love me" you are sending him those thoughts and messages.  PW is a and powerful way of sending messages that you can be assured he gets.  My fiancé' stated it best when he said "I don't care if someone is controlling the passion and love I feel for them as long as I am happy".  

Women and men control each other all the time by acting the way the other person wants or looking a certain way to attract the other person.  It is controlling them if that is out of the ordinary for you and you're doing it for the sole purpose of getting what you want.  PW is done with love and intention.  The reason you hear him say the things you desire to hear is because it ignites emotion in you and that is what manifesting is all about.  The emotion and gratitude is what attracts what you desire to you.  He says the things to you because he feels them.  Hope this helps!

Big Hugs,
Lanie

Lanie! Thanks for answering this. I think I understand what you mean. But the question I have is why do we have to them to us at all if we can just imagine our thoughts into reality? Doesn't callin them hearing them say what we want to hear somewhat influential?

Thanks I have heard of it but not referredb to as Pw. Question.  Is that book only for women?