BooLala wrote:

TheChemist wrote:

BooLala wrote:

Basically the first time it happened just over 3yrs ago i basically took a massive step and said to myself shes my girl, my soul mate and true love. I stopped social media, she wasnt on it which was a massive bonus so i didnt know what she was doing, i stayed celebate and visualized what i wanted. Apart from immediate family and close friends, as far as anyone else knew we were still together and when i had women chatting me up i told them i had a missus. It just helped so much not knowing anything about what she was doing.

That's really awesome. What was your time frame on this? I've done some of this—she's definitely my soul mate, and I've made all the internal changes needed to make sure we never separate again. We've not talked via social media in months, and I'll make moves to avoid her there more. I've also started telling people I'm with someone (because I am, truly), and it helps a lot. I'm, starting last night, visualizing more than before, as well as more consistently. I have a feeling, yeah, we're really going to be together: We totally already are. 

I'm feeling better, thanks to this group, and things are moving forward here.

The time frame from when she first cut me off was 6weeks. Second time when she cut me off got back with her ex and move in and engaged again it took me 6weeks. Its only my anger and rage towards her which is why its 2yrs now. Ive been obsessed in knowing why she cut me off nothing more. As i said she is currently in a serious relationship and they have just bought a house together but i need to truly forgive her not surpress it. I guarantee i could have back within 3months but i need to forgive her first

Wow, 6 weeks? That's hella impressive. It makes me wonder what it is I'm missing in re-attracting my girl that quickly. Starting this week, though, I'm getting back into a rigid, consistent visualization program, and I'm starting to feel it improving. I'm g

BooLala wrote:

TheChemist wrote:

BooLala wrote:

Ive got my ex back twice and from what would be called an impossible situation, she moved in and got engaged to her ex. That was 2yrs ago, this time its been nearly 2yrs and shes currently with someone and they have just bought a house together. We dont talk or have any communication and its taken me so long as im so full or rage and anger towards her still.
I find getting an ex back very easy.
What worked for me to get her back from her ex was she wasnt on FB or any social media so was good to not even guess what she was up to or if shes dating....

This is a fascinating story. Can you elaborate? How was it easy, and what made it so? We reunited once before, although a possible rebound wasn't a concern, and I'm feeling a little shaken right now in my faith. Then again, my gut continues to tell me how impossible it is for this to fail.

Basically the first time it happened just over 3yrs ago i basically took a massive step and said to myself shes my girl, my soul mate and true love. I stopped social media, she wasnt on it which was a massive bonus so i didnt know what she was doing, i stayed celebate and visualized what i wanted. Apart from immediate family and close friends, as far as anyone else knew we were still together and when i had women chatting me up i told them i had a missus. It just helped so much not knowing anything about what she was doing.

That's really awesome. What was your time frame on this? I've done some of this—she's definitely my soul mate, and I've made all the internal changes needed to make sure we never separate again. We've not talked via social media in months, and I'll make moves to avoid her there more. I've also started telling people I'm with someone (because I am, truly), and it helps a lot. I'm, starting last night, visualizing more than before, as well as more consistently. I have a feeling, yeah, we're really going to be together: We totally already are. 

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Man, it's crazy how social media has so much power over people.

It really is...what's wrong with us?

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I've read on here that the universe is unbiased and if that's true I can't see how anything can be a  "test".

But perhaps when we start to raise our vibe, old rubbish comes up for us to deal with? In your case looking at the cause of poor self esteem you've alluded to.

I've heard that about the Universe being unbiased, and, yeah, by and large, I agree with that. I think my gut reaction is to see it as a test, though, which I should work on.

Maybe you're right about old rubbish. I do remember a lot of poor self-esteem, which I have been working on. Maybe I'll revisit some of my old books and renew on that. Any advice here?

Avaelle wrote:

TheChemist wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

Even if they do have someone new, it doesn't mean they are going to ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after.  That's how I look at it.

That's a good point. And, truth be told, I don't actually know she does. And the timing is all weird and stuff, like the picture's from a couple months ago, so who knows what's going on on her end. I'm trying to avoid thinking about it and picturing myself in her arms, where we belong, while I try to get some work done today. This forum provides a nice distraction, though.

Stops on her road that leads to you..

While I like that sentence, I don't understand. What do you mean?