No. He definitely wants your attention. I wouldn't play games, but I'd be direct and don't give more information than he needs. Be sure to reply, but never right away and be short and sweet. Very sweet. Make sure he knows he's not the priority. YOU ARE THE PRIORITY!

When you talk about the vortex, I assume you're referring to Abraham Hicks' teachings. Contrast, according to Abe, is supposed to help you. The basic idea of her (his) teaching is roll with it. If it feels hard, you're resisting. Bob like a cork on water. If that's your way of thinking, let it roll off your back and know it's coming.

Easier said than done, right!?!? What helps me is listening to them on YouTube. Meditation is the ultimate resistance technique according to them. Lay back and let your mind go blank. When you entertain the negative thought, you wind up having negative feelings. Negative feelings are your guide. Step back, identify the feeling, and say "huh...".  It will probably help, at least short-term. Continue to do it until the doubts fade. Don't doubt the process.

Firstly, don't say "I'm losing it all". You're speaking that into existence. This is pretty basic relationship stuff and not LOA. Did you actually try to talk to him about how this conversation made you feel? I mean, everyone lashes out, but you need to tell him why. Talking to him witch either fix or damage the sour, but at least you'll know where to start and why he thinks you're not maternal.

I began talking to this incredible man. I freaked out when he was so sweet. I've been hurt a lot and couldn't shake the irrational fear that he'd break my heart for shits and giggles. I spent a lot of time doing self love and was sure I was ready to date. What I wasn't ready for was this kind of connection. The last time I felt this (the ONLY time I felt it), the man literally told me he was using me to feed his ego and the months of talking about marriage and kids was bullshit. It came flooding back and I didn't expect it.

I sent three messages over three days about a week and a half ago. He didn't respond. He didn't say "don't talk to me". He simply didn't respond. I removed him from my Facebook contacts so it would send as a message request now.

I had a chi healing session yesterday. She told me the RS is hitting him and it's making him moody. She said he definitely has he desire to reconcile, but he's one of those people who would rather not talk to someone ever again than fight or argue. She said it's still there and that he's coming back.

I had a reading today. Mostly I wanted to know about this path I'm taking with my career, but I asked her about him. She said he for sure wants me, but he feels he did something wrong. She suggested reaching out to him and clearing up what happened. I apologized before, but I never told him that I'd been hurt and that the way he made me feel scared me. She said to put it out there and let him know that I definitely see something long term with him.

Instead of waiting out the energy work, I did what my reader told me. She's never been wrong before. I mean, she's crazy on the money so I trust it. I did reach out. I made it clear about what happened and how he makes me feel (my chi healer told me it is important to him to make me feel good). The psychic told me he'd take a few days to respond. It's been two hours and I'm still stuck on sent. Meaning he read it, but didn't accept the message. I felt it when he read it abo

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Thank you for taking the time to respond. I feel like I want to move on and let go and its holding me back. Even the thought of anyone new holding my hand or kissing me grosses me out and I have new people wanting to be with me but the thoughts of my person won't leave me alone. I've been doing good for a while, manifesting many great other things and thinking about him made me hopeful and didnt bother me but now there's a nice guy courting me and even wanting to fly here from another country to see me and all my emotions became a mess and I got nervous actually moving on. Its ridiculous because my specific person left with a rebound immediately and here I am 4 months later still stuck on him. I didnt know that doing RS makes you so attached to that person, I thought it was affecting them more than me. I should try to find other thoughts to replace with but its so hard, literally pops in my head every time I go to sleep, wake up, sitting in my car... Its like a curse..
 

It really should be talked about more. Sending energy is literally spellwork, though that's a trigger word and people don't like to think of it that way. When you envision someone obsessed with you, loving you, holding you, and saying wonderful things to you, you're creating that energy within you also. It's intense! That's why Lanie is so adamant about her cord cutting technique. I've never done hers. I use the ones I shared. It's vital to do it each time to ensure you don't wind up obsessed. The longer you hold off, the stronger the cords become and the harder they are to sever permanently. I can say that I spent months obsessed with my original POI and it took a while to get over it. I no longer have this feelings, but I had to completely cut the cord for a couple of months. Now the idea of him touching me makes my skin crawl. I'm working on total indifference. That's when I'll know I'm over it.

wow this is very intense I

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