Also, when we are visualizing being with this person, feeling so much love for them etc, this could be communicated to them subconsciously. Then, the universal mind or whatever you want to call it, could be influencing the circumstances in their life, to make the manifestation possible. For example, with long distance, they may get a job close by, or something. I thought of a friend yesterday that I haven't heard from for a while, and then he text me. He didn't text me because I believed he would text me. I didn't even think about it or expect it. I just thought to myself "I won't be telling him about..." (a thing that happened). Then later on he text me, as if it was an exchange of messages on a mental level.

I know some people can imagine things once and they happen. I think with the specific person stuff, the arrangement of circumstances is the key, along with them sensing our thoughts and being influenced by our imaginal activity. I don't know, I'm just saying what makes sense to me because I don't believe that other people are projections without consciousness. 

That's what I'm aiming for...how do I ignore the rest of it?

Right...I haven't posted on here for quite some time. Got close to my manifestation, messed it up due to worrying, no more detail needed about that. Revised three entire days and felt like it almost never happened, except for when other memories come up now and then. 

Started following the Neville subreddit to keep me motivated. There are success stories and helpful people, but I realised it was of course full of solipsistic "we all live in our own Universe and everyone else is our slaves" type of people. I don't buy that personally. I don't believe in the traditional idea of free will but I also don't believe that other people, when they are "us pushed out", are dumb robots doing our every bidding without having conscious independent thought. I believe that imagining creates reality, and I believe that there is another explanation that we don't know about, all I know is things like telepathy and energy can be and have been studied scientifically, unlike a concept, "us pushed out", that we can't look at or measure. 

ANYWAY...I got caught up thinking about all of that and wondering if it could possibly be true even though intuitively it feels wrong to me. Anyway, it was a big distraction and made me depressed and panicky because I want to just get on with things. I think I'll be keeping away from that subreddit and go back to only listening to Neville himself now. I think people get over-excited because they think they understand Quantum Physics, when Quantum Physicists don't even understand Quantum Physics. I'm not arrogant enough to claim to know how the Universe works, unlike some of these people. All I can say is, Neville's methods clearly work, enough people have had success for me to believe, and I have seen it happen in my own life when I created things I didn't want. 

So, I had a realisation the other day that was helpful. I had been struggling to imagine or feel the wish fulfilled. For some reason, I hadn't realised just how obsessed I had been with my

I had a good friend that had gone quiet. The last few times we'd arranged to meet, he'd cancelled, and then stopped replying to me.

Since it was Christmas, I said to myself, I might as well say Merry Christmas to him. Then I thought, let's test this stuff out a bit more...so I imagined he was talking to me normally again. I imagined it once, and left it at that and didn't really think about it after. Well, he replied to my Christmas message, and we had an actual conversation.

A similar thing happened with another friend recently. So, if you want someone to contact you, just imagine it and relax. Don't obsess over whether it's working, just let it happen.