Law of Attraction Discussion » My ex 'won' me back after 7 years... » 12/17/2016 8:01 pm |
Not my own success story, but if he were into loa, it would be his so I'll write it from his perspective. We dated when we were just 16 for 5 months, at the time I was happy for most of it but then things turned really sour very fast. It began when he started hating the group of people I liked to hang out with, because they were from his school and one of them had stolen his previous girlfriend. I wanted to be in this crowd though, but Jake (my ex) was too difficult to deal with. Then my previous ex (who had broken up with me after 3 weeks the year before and who I had gotten fully over at this time) actually came back to me and asked me to my country's version of prom. He asked me as a 'friend' and I wanted to go because I was a lot younger and wanted to just go to this prom but I still wanted to be with Jake. But Jake threw such a fit over it, I ended up declining, but resenting Jake even more for not trusting me. Then I broke up with him. It was a very messy break up, including Jake pleading and begging and crying and texting me non stop-both asking me back and hating me. I was turned off. I went back to my previous ex, the one who asked me to prom, and I just never went back to Jake.
Moving on, Jake still kept up communication with me through facebook over the years. Every 4-5 months or so I would probably get a message from him just saying 'hi' which I would in turn, just ignore. I could sense he still loved me and wanted another chance. I didn't take notice. I fell in love with someone else for the longest time and Jake was just out of my mind until one day, while being with the guy I was in love with, I had a flashback to a time where I spent with Jake and I began to cry. It was so weird. So weird. Again, Jake's love for me was still apparant but that's not when I took notice of Jake.
Flash forward to this year, I went out for a beer with Jake. I was single, my first love-the guy I came on here to manifest- was away with another girl and cut contact with
Law of Attraction Discussion » Could this be 'it' ? Guidance needed » 12/17/2016 4:30 pm |
I actually believe in karma in terms of, what comes around goes around, because I personally have experienced it But I think it's because I have experienced it, that I believe in it, which makes me experience it more. On a karma level- if my specific person and this girlfriend break up, it would be my karma coming back to me for her having broken us up. So on that note- it would be due to me energetically.
But that's not LOA. In this particular situation, it seems that this new girl and my specific person are not in a good relationship. She looked really destraught and terrified and super anxious, I feel like she's too insecure. She also tried to have an argument with me, which would be only something an unhappy person would try to do. This relationship is definitely not for her highest good. So on an energetic level, they should seperate, because I saw it and it was not love and looked pretty nasty. I mean, couples fighting is one thing, but this kind of fighting was quite cold and brutal.
Anyway, yeah I guess we'll see what happens!
Law of Attraction Discussion » Could this be 'it' ? Guidance needed » 12/17/2016 3:32 pm |
Hey nice to meet you
I think we had discussions on whether the universe is moral or not, and the answer actually is that if the universe was moral, like gets to judge what would be 'right' or 'wrong' , then that would mean the universe is the controller while in loa we believe that we are the controllers, through our vibe. So just putting that out there, however, there are also beliefs in karma but again, we discussed this and we can say that karma, (what you give, you'll get back ) , only would work if you believed it to be so. So think of all the rapists in the world who are walking free, or all the cruel people in the world who seem to have it all still. I think what you send out, you get back...but I'm not sure I would believe that if you sent out a thought like 'I want these two people to break up so I can be with him' that it would come back years later to you in the form of you getting your partner stolen. Sure, Esther Hicks took Jerry from being engaged to another woman and she never had him taken off her....
I think it's a given that if my manifestation with this person were happening, he would need to be on the outs with her or broken up haha, otherwise it just wouldn't happen ! Thing is, I'm not like over the moon, super hopeful, I'm kind of just watching this as if it was just a validation of my powers and of LOA, if that makes sense?
Like I think I can focus quite well into the vortex, I have confidence in my abilities, but this could be like, the manifestation that proves me correct. And I wonder...why did this whole argument happen in front of me and sort of around me and also told to me... why did I get insight into this other relationship if it was not to do with my focus and powers at that moment and from the visualization a week before? Like that never had to happen, if you get me, but it did. So yeah...gets me thinking
Law of Attraction Discussion » Could this be 'it' ? Guidance needed » 12/17/2016 2:19 pm |
Like, I know couples fight, but the steady couples I know never fight like that in public and on top of that, she asked me if he was cheating on her with me... which of course I said no to, and then she proceeded to tell me that he gets really angry...and like, why are you telling me this?? I felt like she was desperate, like telling the ex girlfriend about her problems with her boyfriend...I actually felt sorry for her. I didn't even want to 'stir' anything up, like telling her too much about how he and I broke up ...his last words to me were, 'we're going to get back together, just give me a month to breathe by myself' but then I caught him out with her and that was pretty much it. So anyway, at this moment in time I'm just wondering about whether the law of attraction is actually working out in my favour? Why did I 'attract' this girl to tell me that they were having bad problems? Why did the universe do that if it wasn't for my vibes and the manifestation? Like not like she doesn't have friends...yet she told me... I wonder...
Law of Attraction Discussion » Could this be 'it' ? Guidance needed » 12/17/2016 2:11 pm |
I never come on here anymore, I think it's because during these last few months I've just been unable to retain positivity towards my original specific person, I started just wanting to move on, feeling fed up you know? So I started to and I actually started putting the past behind me ... well, a couple of weeks ago, I got inspired to come back on to talk to my friend on here and I just got inspired to do some visualisations again with my original person. This time it was different, I was having lots of dreams about him, dreams where he was still with the other girl and telling me that he doesn't want me back and I was sort of saying the same to him but then I realised, what if that's just my thoughts alone and not about the current situation? Well cut long story short, I'm feeling quite different about it all, it's not upsetting me anymore, and last night I got to first hand accidentally witness him and his girlfriend fighting and she was crying at a party I was at with other people. She seemed distraught....he seemed angry/annoyed/frustrated.... is it possible that this is the beginning of my manifestation? How do I know? His relationship with me is no different - no talking, he never responds even to simple things like a birthday greeting, he barely looks at me but he can be warm at times...I think he's just awkward with me, afraid that I might get emotional and upset in public like I did when we first broke up, a year and a half ago, but I haven't at all in the last year. So I dunno? What does everyone here think?
Law of Attraction Discussion » Skepticism on the use of law of attraction (harsh reality) » 11/28/2016 6:19 pm |
*Just an additional note*
It is entirely possible, however, in fact it is the nearly for sure that the next person you fall in love with (whenever or whoever that might might be and after you have fully healed from the first person) will be much more what you want and need than the one before. Because we are programmed to search for traits and characteristics in people that we like, which means if your dream person or soulmate is in a room with you and 100 other people, he or she and you will gravitate towards one another and you will spot them. We are just built that way, which is why many people moan about the fact that they seem to keep attracting the same sort of person over and over again.
And in relation to your specific person-after a certain amount of time has passed since your break up and you keep doing LOA exercises to attract them, you will actually just repel them further and further away. The reason for this is two fold- A. Because they might have moved on completely and find it unnerving that you still want them back (which they will know intuitively because energetic telepathy IS real if two people are still connected or have a bond) and B. Because the 'them' you have in your mind when you are visualizing and RS-ing is really not them anymore. The break up and the energy from that split has transformed both you and them, but you don't want to admit or feel the transformation yet but they have. The break up has changed their outlook subtly, their goals, their ideas of love, ideas of a good relationship, ideas for the future...your relationship and its break up has inevitably affected them so that they are actually NO longer the person they were when you first met them or when you dated them.
So therein lies the problem- you are trying to attract someone you no longer intimately know yet you are presuming that you do. People who have experienced reconciliations, like me, can testify to say that the person you thought they were when you wanted th
Law of Attraction Discussion » Skepticism on the use of law of attraction (harsh reality) » 11/28/2016 5:41 pm |
It's been a long time since I've posted here, but I used to post a lot earlier this year when I was learning about LOA as much as possible. I have spent the last two years using my spare time to look up about LOA and also other things like telepathy, metaphysics, parapsychology, paranormal, hypnosis, magick, reiki and I have also dabbled in shamanism and following different spiritual teachers for a little while too. Here's what I have really discovered through all my pondering so far. Firstly, things that stand out to be talked about in all those plains and that seem to definitely have basis in truth would be the idea of telepathy, energetically or mentally sending and receiving thoughts or signals from people, precognition-notably dream precognition, the ability to change a belief in oneself-hypnosis and using LOA suggestion can help to cure phobias, stop certain addictions, even erase feelings of love for a person. The power of the intuition is real- the intuition can sense the emotions of another person easily, it can sense danger.
But, my friends, here is where the story about attracting a person truly begins and ends. A person will not do something they do not want to do even under hypnosis, as in, if it goes against their truest wishes, they will not. So a person will never do what you want them to do no matter how much you want them too if they Do Not want to. Magick is an interesting subject, very few people in western culture believe in it, but a lot of people in parts of Africa and Asia and the Caribbean do and people do believe when they feel insatiable lust or obsession for someone that they might have been put under a voodoo spell, so very common spells that witchdoctors do in those places are binding spells-to put distance between two people. So the point of that is- people do not like when they feel they are doing something they do not want to do either. So basically, if you want an ex back, spend maybe 2 weeks at most using LOA type exercises, but
Veronica's 25 Day Challenge » New bf, old bf » 10/11/2016 1:24 pm |
oh and please dump the guy you have now, it'll just end in tears if you don't ...
Veronica's 25 Day Challenge » New bf, old bf » 10/11/2016 1:23 pm |
That's really similar to what happened to me....one day he wanted to get back together, two weeks later I caught him out with a girl who then told me, or more, screamed at me, that they were a couple.
OK so basically, the reality you are perceiving sucks. But there is another way to perceive it. You just have to know a few basic things. One- if he was meant for you right NOW he would be with you. Two- if you were meant for him right NOW you would be with him. Three- Right NOW both matters and doesn't matter...meaning, the events that are going on right now suck but they are basically in the past, because as they are happening, so they are ending, this too shall pass. How they matter is because they help form the future. Your relation to your present needs to change to create the future that you want.
So you don't want to have this nastiness around you, you don't want to feel that you were misled and then abandoned for someone else. So instead, your new truth is, to have a great future relationship, you needed to spend this time exploring the world without him and he needs to have this time to explore the world without you. Let him explore, let yourself explore. Read articles about things people wish they had done before being in a serious relationship...things like, travelling solo, having a brief affair with someone who is not usually your type, educating yourself in something like languages, history, politics, cooking...You have this time to be a mystery to him, to change things you want to change about yourself, to do things you couldn't do when you were with him. He has this time to decide what kind of man and life he wants to be. So your both on your own paths right now, and the thing is, when you are really ok with the present and totally happy with the kind of person you are, you will show up in a different way and he will be attracted back. It may not happen quickly. but like Abraham says, if you decide to go to visit a city far away, you don't get upset
Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » I did it because I can... » 10/10/2016 7:40 pm |
I was literally just thinking about this post yesterday .....then came on today to see it resurrected ....talk about instant manifestation....