Not my own success story, but if he were into loa, it would be his so I'll write it from his perspective. We dated when we were just 16 for 5 months, at the time I was happy for most of it but then things turned really sour very fast. It began when he started hating the group of people I liked to hang out with, because they were from his school and one of them had stolen his previous girlfriend. I wanted to be in this crowd though, but Jake (my ex) was too difficult to deal with. Then my previous ex (who had broken up with me after 3 weeks the year before and who I had gotten fully over at this time) actually came back to me and asked me to my country's version of prom. He asked me as a 'friend' and I wanted to go because I was a lot younger and wanted to just go to this prom but I still wanted to be with Jake. But Jake threw such a fit over it, I ended up declining, but resenting Jake even more for not trusting me. Then I broke up with him. It was a very messy break up, including Jake pleading and begging and crying and texting me non stop-both asking me back and hating me. I was turned off. I went back to my previous ex, the one who asked me to prom, and I just never went back to Jake. 

Moving on, Jake still kept up communication with me through facebook over the years. Every 4-5 months or so I would probably get a message from him just saying 'hi' which I would in turn, just ignore. I could sense he still loved me and wanted another chance. I didn't take notice. I fell in love with someone else for the longest time and Jake was just out of my mind until one day, while being with the guy I was in love with, I had a flashback to a time where I spent with Jake and I began to cry. It was so weird. So weird. Again, Jake's love for me was still apparant but that's not when I took notice of Jake.

Flash forward to this year, I went out for a beer with Jake. I was single, my first love-the guy I came on here to manifest- was away with another girl and cut contact with me. That's when I felt free to kiss Jake, just for fun, so I thought, and I did. Jake in the meantime was also getting over an ex girlfriend. But then after that, Jake just stopped messaging me. I started to message him, and sometimes he would reply, sometimes he wouldn't. I found out this September that Jake took another girlfriend and you know what....I actually tried to get him back. I sent him a message telling him that I had feelings for him still, that there was something still between us, that that kiss had sparks, we had a chance....but Jake never replied. Jake got over me before that kiss, he got over me when he was getting over his ex. Jake still found me attractive, but I felt the vibe of his love was gone. And so yes, Jake has a success story in me. It wasn't until this year that I felt anything for him that was real again, but I think it wasn't until this year that he stopped feeling that strong want to have me back. He was happy to kiss me, but he didn't care as much as I thought. He didn't ask me out on another date. He found someone else...but he had me this year.

So yeah, there you have a little success story where you will find it takes pretty much getting over someone for them to want you back...or 'letting go' and 'detaching' .