YUS Stacey I love this! You know I did that with a pair of jeans today, some tops and a dinner being paid for me today. I was walking around with a friend and I said I really want a pair of high waisted jeans that wasn't too expensive and was a perfect fit. I said it was super hard to buy a pair that was a reasonable price. Not gonna lie straight after I said it I found 2 pairs from a store I rarely walked into, both perfect fit but one was cheaper than the other. Strangely enough the cheaper pair was better fitted , softer material and better style. Then after I ended up bagging 4 tops and was amazed at how everything came to just £40. Last time I brought a pair of jeans it was exactly £40, so I managed to buy more with the same amount of money this time. Later on in my evening I was wondering how it'd be nice if someone brought me dinner since I had spent so much money shopping today... not gonna lie, I went out to eat after my dance lesson and my man decided to buy me dinner out of the blue. Wasn't attached to any outcome today, was just going around saying stuff I wished I had and all landed in my lap simultaneously :') 

Congratulations, so happy for you!!

Seal wrote:

I think most people have a hard time with detachment. It's not about moving on, but just being indifferent about the outcome. Stop caring so much. Your story and the other success stories here emphasize that. Congrats!

Thank you so much! I'm sure you will have plenty of success too and many more to come in your life time! It's all just sooo much fun! :D

lolabear wrote:

zionthecomedian wrote:

lolabear wrote:

this has been my experience too. results come quick when you just enjoy the thought of your desire.

I know right, it's really wonderful. Just the thought makes me happy nowadays, just makes me all warm and fuzzy inside! I never knew it'd really work until he told me out loud. Makes this even more fun, especially seeing him so confused hahaa

it's lots of fun! it's the best feeling when you get to the point where you feel so confident and at ease that you can play with your manifesting powers without second guessing anything. my guy confessed to dreaming about me just like yours did! and it was out of the blue after 3 months of nc. all i did was feel a lot of love for him for a few days and it caused him to start dreaming about me and compelled him to reach out even after we had a falling out a few months ago. it's amazing.
 

I know right!! Confidence is key and just having fun and enjoying the ride!! :D
I'm so glad your guy did too! It makes you wonder don't it! How funny life is.
I love playing around with it now, just imagining everything and being thankful as if it's all been lined up slowly. I feel so much love nowadays!

So quick story while it's still fresh in my mind.
Some of you that have read my story will know I've had great success with my reconciliation and I'm sure everyone else on here will do so soon too!
Anyhow just to boost everyone's spirits- yes visualizing does work and sending love does work. 

Last few nights, I have been meditating and visualizing when I sleep. No I am not good at it, no I am not stressed about it and no I am not hung up about it. I imagine things I'd love to do with my man. I imagine and replay all the good times we had and getting into a good feeling before sleeping. I listen to meditation soundtracks as I drift since I find they make me feel good. I've been thinking about going to the movies with him like our first date, cuddling again, kissing about, the one time I cracked him and he told me he loved me. 

Although the image wasn't vivid since I was so relaxed I still got into that relaxed state and drifted to sleep.
So around 9-10pm this evening I decided to snapchat him. We didn't speak much but I didn't take it personal and went about relaxing after a long day at work. Then during one of his snapchats he says ''Oh yeah, you were in my dreams last night... staph it.'' I was of course, very confused. I asked what happened?
He said ''We were watching a movie together, then we cuddled and spooned, nothing else'' 
In my head I was thinking... what a strange thing to think about it... especially since I've been doing it last few nights... I joked about, maybe making it a reality soon ;) But I'm pretty sure we will have something planned in the near distant future. 

Anyhow, we stayed up and spoke for a while longer, just general chitchat with a lot of banter and a bit of flirting. 
My point is, it does work. But only when you are relaxed, don't give a **** about the outcome and just enjoy visualizing and loving the feelings you get when you're playing around with visualizations. You will always hit them on some level, but only when you and yo