| Help me align please... 🙈 » Help please, I don't know what's going on at the moment » 3/26/2019 4:23 pm |
- roomnumber16
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Hi all,
As Cynthia said in my post/topic. You must believe it works. and Just do the things that make you feel its happening, or what makes you feel that the desired thought is now in reality. I did have setbacks as I've told Cynthia as well. I did check upon my SP social media and as Cynthia told me, I must stop doing those things ( checking her social media/ checking other dudes that might be a suitor) because it will really break your belief.Â
Do whatever it takes for your desire to be in reality. BELIEVE in it Don't take NO for an answer this time. I personally told myself that. And I've kept repeating what Cynthia asked me if I ever get the urge, (That is : How much do you want the relationship? and kept it on my mind all the time)
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| Neville Goddard » NEW TO NEVILLE » 3/25/2019 8:20 pm |
- roomnumber16
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Cynthia wrote:roomnumber16 wrote:Cynthia wrote:
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Thank you for saying that, and you're very welcome.Hi Cynthia,
I'm so saddened that I couldn't keep myself from checking her profile on social media, I did it for a whole day yesterday (or I just checked her profile once) but then earlier I was not able to keep myself, and thus I saw a kind of unwanted event, but I've researched that it is also possible that what is happening now, is a result of previous thoughts or manifestations, So I kept on telling myself that this is just a result from my previous thoughts and thus was manifested (weeks or months before). Now I try to take my focus off the thing that I saw, by reaffirming my self with affirmations over and over again whenever my thoughts go into that image again or think of more unwanted things about my SP.
A solution that I thought of is just don't look at her profile but its so counter intuitive that I fear I'll lose her more if I went more distant. But I know that I shouldn't be thinking of that fact. But just think of the very moment/state that I have her already or I'm happy with her as my wife, I guess what I'm trying to say is just, its so challenging. But I'm willing to go through this challenge because this relationship is important to me!, its been a week since we last talked.Â
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Didn't I tell you not to look at social media? I tell people that on a regular basis, so I thought I told you as well. I don't do social media myself and neither does anybody I know, but if I did I wouldn't look. Don't look again. Delete your account(s) if that's what it takes. How much do you want the relationship? Keep that uppermost in your mind. You've got to do whatever it takes, and that includes avoiding anything that's going to reinforce the current situation or anything that is going to give you any doubts or fears. I can't impress upon you enough how vitally important this is. I spent a lot of time last year privately helping another bloke w
| Neville Goddard » NEW TO NEVILLE » 3/25/2019 3:33 pm |
- roomnumber16
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Cynthia wrote:roomnumber16 wrote:Cynthia wrote:
Don't believe everything you read/hear. I personally stick to the horse's mouth, so to speak, in this case Neville. People who say that don't understand how the subconscious mind works. It usually takes repetition to program the subconscious mind or to reprogram it. I'll never forget the time I was involved in a sort of game or experiment where one person at the end of a row of people was told a word that they were supposed to say to the next person and it was supposed to be passed from person to person down the row. The person at the end of the row said something completely different to what the first person had been told. Some people in that row didn't even have the ability to repeat even just one word that they had just heard to the person next to them. I was shocked.
Neville himself imagined whatever it was he wanted every night before he went to sleep. When Abdullah first taught him this, he did it every night for about a month before he got the invitation from his brother to go to Barbados. I can't remember how long he did it to marry his second wife, but when he wanted the divorce from his first wife so he could marry his second wife I think it was a matter of days, I think it was about 10 or so, but I'd have to check that, but the point is that he himself repeated what he was imagining. When he wanted passage for his wife and child and himself to New York from Barbados, it only took him one night before he got a phone call offering it to him the next morning. When he imagined his honourable discharge from the army, when he imagined it he had a dream where a hand came down and crossed out 'disapproved' from the paperwork and wrote 'approved' and a voice told him that it was done and to do nothing, so I got the impression that he didn't imagine that any further because he didn't feel the need, and I think it was 7 or 8 days later that he got his honourable discharge.You never fail to inspire me Cynth
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| Neville Goddard » NEW TO NEVILLE » 3/23/2019 5:29 pm |
- roomnumber16
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Cynthia wrote:roomnumber16 wrote:Cynthia wrote:
Hiya,
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You're welcome.
Do whatever helps you believe that you have the relationship already and helps you live in the end of the wish fulfilled. I can tell you some things that have helped me. I listen to Neville a lot for the reinforcement. With all of the general negativity in the world, it's really important to counteract that as much as possible. I often imagine the relationship the way I want it to be whilst listening to Neville talk about the subject, when he talks about marrying his second wife that way and talks about other people having done the same thing, as well as imagining it at other times. I also read his books and lectures, although I listen to him more than read, and I regularly reread the letter from Mrs J E in the part of The Law and the Promise that I recommended before and do what she did. I have 3 songs that are meaningful to me that I listen to a lot whilst imagining my relationship with my SP. They're from a long time ago. Two of the them are by The Turtles, one is Happy Together, the other is She'd Rather Be With Me, and the third song is by Climax Blue Band called I Love You..Those are the things I do consistently. I also sometimes listen to I Miss Ya Girl (first version) by Chas and Dave. In the past I have listened to and sometimes still do to two hypnosis recordings. One is called Get the Love You Want by Glenn Harrold and the other is called Attract Love by Barrie St John. As an added extra, I had a subliminal recording made to my specifications at the beginning of the year for which I wrote all of the statements myself that I wanted used and have that playing a lot in the background, but I haven't listened to it all that much with headphones as it said to do, so I couldn't say whether it has helped or not because I just don't know.
I think it was also really important for me to finally decide one way or the other whether I wanted the relationship or not after being indecisive for sucNeville Goddard » NEW TO NEVILLE » 3/23/2019 4:15 pm - roomnumber16
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Cynthia wrote:
Hiya,
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You're welcome.
Do whatever helps you believe that you have the relationship already and helps you live in the end of the wish fulfilled. I can tell you some things that have helped me. I listen to Neville a lot for the reinforcement. With all of the general negativity in the world, it's really important to counteract that as much as possible. I often imagine the relationship the way I want it to be whilst listening to Neville talk about the subject, when he talks about marrying his second wife that way and talks about other people having done the same thing, as well as imagining it at other times. I also read his books and lectures, although I listen to him more than read, and I regularly reread the letter from Mrs J E in the part of The Law and the Promise that I recommended before and do what she did. I have 3 songs that are meaningful to me that I listen to a lot whilst imagining my relationship with my SP. They're from a long time ago. Two of the them are by The Turtles, one is Happy Together, the other is She'd Rather Be With Me, and the third song is by Climax Blue Band called I Love You..Those are the things I do consistently. I also sometimes listen to I Miss Ya Girl (first version) by Chas and Dave. In the past I have listened to and sometimes still do to two hypnosis recordings. One is called Get the Love You Want by Glenn Harrold and the other is called Attract Love by Barrie St John. As an added extra, I had a subliminal recording made to my specifications at the beginning of the year for which I wrote all of the statements myself that I wanted used and have that playing a lot in the background, but I haven't listened to it all that much with headphones as it said to do, so I couldn't say whether it has helped or not because I just don't know.
I think it was also really important for me to finally decide one way or the other whether I wanted the relationship or not after being indecisive for such a long time and to commit to doin
Neville Goddard » NEW TO NEVILLE » 3/23/2019 11:29 am - roomnumber16
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Cynthia wrote:
Hiya, It doesn't matter what I or anybody else thinks. What do you think? Your own beliefs are super important and really all that matters. Long before I ever heard of Neville I imagined being married to a certain person and imagined wearing a wedding ring, and I did marry him, and we were married for a long time, many years. It was long distance with minimal contact, perhaps one snail mail letter from each of us to the other per month or so and a couple of brief phone calls in total like a birthday message. I did leave out some important things, leaving them to chance, which was a mistake that I wouldn't repeat now that I know better. We're divorced now, and it was a few years after this that I discovered Neville, although I'd read other authors on the subject since the age of 15. I prefer Neville because he didn't put limitations on anything like most of the others did, and the others mostly at least strongly implied that this is something you only do when you want something, not that we are all creating our lives all the time whether we are consciously aware of this or not or that imagination is what is reality because that is what is creating our outward experiences that people call reality.
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I don't like the word 'preach' in this context, but I do my best to practise what I preach, and if I didn't know and believe that Neville's teachings worked, I wouldn't be advocating them, but you've got to have faith. Imagination plus faith. As I mentioned in another post, my current SP is somebody I haven't spoken with for over 2 years. He's cut me off 4 times, the longest time of which was 4 years and 4 months. I didn't even decide until this year that I really did want a relationship with him, before then I kept changing my mind back and forth, so this year I have been doing exactly what Neville himself did, what I did before but with improvements, and I've been called 'delusional' by someone who doesn't believe I'll ever hear from him again. I took that
Neville Goddard » NEW TO NEVILLE » 3/21/2019 6:38 pm - roomnumber16
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Cynthia wrote:roomnumber16 wrote:
Hi all,
I'm very new to the teachings of Neville, and I have a question
I know he says live in the end, "UNTIL" it becomes a fact. So it only means imagine and believe until it becomes reality right?
But Can we do this multiple times for a specific field in life? for example If my first "end" was becoming the boyfriends of my Specific Girl , would it be possible to live another end ? lets say getting married with this specific girl after some time?Â
Thanks for the replies! I might not be able to reply ASAP but I will try my best to do so.ÂÂ
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You don't try to or need to do steps along the way. If the ultimate end is to marry her, that's the end you would live in. It is unlikely that most people would go straight to getting married immediately. There would most likely be some sort of courtship period first, so living in the end of being married doesn't mean that you would have an immediate marriage unless perhaps that was your desire. You don't have to worry about that happening. You are the operant power. You are creating the relationship in your imagination just the way you want it to be.. There would be events leading up to the eventual marriage. I'm copying and pasting the below from one of my other replies.
When you live in the end, you go straight to the very end in your imagination where this person is not your ex-girlfriend, she's your girlfriend, or if you want to marry her, she's your wife, and you stay there, being faithful to that imaginal act, making it as real as possible, being consistent, persistent, and patient, ignoring anything in the outside world that would deny that, and having faith that what you are doing in your imagination is creating the relationship you want, until it manifests in the outside world. You don't try to manipulate outer conditions overtly, such as trying to talk somebody into something. Just like it takes a certain period of time for a seed to grow into a plant or a tree and it
Neville Goddard » NEW TO NEVILLE » 3/21/2019 4:36 pm - roomnumber16
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Hi all,
I'm very new to the teachings of Neville, and I have a question
I know he says live in the end, "UNTIL" it becomes a fact. So it only means imagine and believe until it becomes reality right?
But Can we do this multiple times for a specific field in life? for example If my first "end" was becoming the boyfriends of my Specific Girl , would it be possible to live another end ? lets say getting married with this specific girl after some time?Â
Thanks for the replies! I might not be able to reply ASAP but I will try my best to do so.Â
Ex/Specific Person Discussion » HELP ME GET HER BACK PLEASE » 3/20/2019 11:58 am - roomnumber16
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Hi all,
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First of all I would like to thank you for reading this, this will be a long story.. and I've stumbled upon Veronica's videos for about a couple of months before and tried to use the techniques. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't (I'm not sure really)
So the story goes, she is an ex-girl friend of one of my friends in our group, but that guy is not really close to me. then I heard from her that they broke up already.. But I didn't go hit her immediately after the break up. (that was back 2016). And we talked regularly through chat but my intention was just being there as a friend and all.. I lately realized that I had feelings for this girl when last year (2018) she was going to be confined,and it got me all worried. That was the time that I realized I had feelings for the girl..Â
I didn't ask her ex's permission to pursue her, then I tried to self validate my feelings, tried not talking to her, tried to ignore her(it made me feel like a dump). But the heart wants what the heart wants right?.. So in the end I realized I do have feelings for her.Â
At some point, I saw photos of her with another guy and I suspected that there is something going on between them, So I approached her through chat and asked her if they're together, but she denied it, and said, she's still testing the guy. Then that was the time that I told her I had feelings for her and all.. At first she was surprised, and couldn't even believe it.. But I said my piece and then proceeded in pursuing her/courting her (this happened October 16 2018)..Â
This is the problem. you see this girl meets this guy regularly. even though I try to set dates and all she would deny it and tell me she's busy or something. But keeps on meeting this other guy. the guy posts stories of them daily. ( imagine the torture I always experience) But I kept my cool, I did ask her about the other guy 3 times but I explained that if you guys have something going on, you should at least tell me, I don't want to
No Contact » HELP ME PLEASE » 3/20/2019 11:56 am - roomnumber16
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Hi all,
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First of all I would like to thank you for reading this, this will be a long story.. and I've stumbled upon Veronica's videos for about a couple of months before and tried to use the techniques. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't (I'm not sure really)
So the story goes, she is an ex-girl friend of one of my friends in our group, but that guy is not really close to me. then I heard from her that they broke up already.. But I didn't go hit her immediately after the break up. (that was back 2016). And we talked regularly through chat but my intention was just being there as a friend and all.. I lately realized that I had feelings for this girl when last year (2018) she was going to be confined,and it got me all worried. That was the time that I realized I had feelings for the girl..Â
I didn't ask her ex's permission to pursue her, then I tried to self validate my feelings, tried not talking to her, tried to ignore her(it made me feel like a dump). But the heart wants what the heart wants right?.. So in the end I realized I do have feelings for her.Â
At some point, I saw photos of her with another guy and I suspected that there is something going on between them, So I approached her through chat and asked her if they're together, but she denied it, and said, she's still testing the guy. Then that was the time that I told her I had feelings for her and all.. At first she was surprised, and couldn't even believe it.. But I said my piece and then proceeded in pursuing her/courting her (this happened October 16 2018)..Â
This is the problem. you see this girl meets this guy regularly. even though I try to set dates and all she would deny it and tell me she's busy or something. But keeps on meeting this other guy. the guy posts stories of them daily. ( imagine the torture I always experience) But I kept my cool, I did ask her about the other guy 3 times but I explained that if you guys have something going on, you should at least tell me, I don't want to
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