| Law of Attraction Discussion » Where am i ? » 3/13/2016 8:50 am |
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Just wanted to get some thoughts on where i am in the scheme of things
My ex broke us up nearly 3 months ago
Been trying to do no contact for last 6 weeks or so...minimal contact since then...
I'm now at the stage of although i'd like her to contact me etc ...
It's no longer the end of the world if she doesnt...i want her to naturally..but past the really upset she hasnt stage
I'm still convinced we are going to get back together....
But just trying to gauge where i am ...
(Obviously we all have a few low points but generally i'm comfortable that there's no way she can resist .....US !)
| LOA Books » The Alchemist » 3/12/2016 6:08 am |
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A friend of mine who i met last friday was actually flying to Barcelona on the Saturday for a meeting with said Author !
| Law of Attraction Discussion » Unconditional.. » 3/10/2016 1:41 pm |
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You're very welcome .....and wishing you GREAT success !!!
x
| Law of Attraction Discussion » Unconditional.. » 3/10/2016 12:45 pm |
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iinikkii wrote:So this morning I've been reading through the forum .. (I find myself getting on the forum immediately when I wake up, I think the reason is because it helps get me to a good feeling place) .. After reading through the forum I started to reflect on things that some of you have said, and things that have happened along my journey. Cherished post on unconditional love really got me to thinking. Sooo.. I wanted to share with you guys something that happened just maybe over a month ago. So we all know that I'm wanting my MB back, well, not too long ago the powerball was 800billion. I remember sitting on my porch talking to my brother I law about what it would be like, what would I do, buy, etc. just how awesome it would be. Well he asked me a question that day that got me to write this post. He asked #1 "if you won the 800 million dollars, would you still want him back? " I without any hesitation, I didn't even have to think about it I said emphatically Yes! He then said "you mean after all that you've been through, after all that has happened, you mean to tell me that if you won that money, and he showed back up, you would take him back" I again stated "absolutely" .. So then he asked me another question, "if you had to chose between him and that much money, which one would you chose?" .. I then answered.. I would chose him, there isn't enough money in the world that could take his place.
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So with sharing this, and reading the post cherished made about unconditional love, I started thinking about that conversation and what it really means to unconditionally love him. I think I'm on the right track. YES I want to be with him more than anything in the world. But you know what, I love him regardless. ( even saying that I get a little uneasy bc I don't want the universe to think that I am saying that I don't want him back..as silly as that sounds, because I do) but I don't just love him if he's standing right beside me, I don't just love him when he is WITH
| Birthdays! 🎁 » Any Taurus Leo's Capicorn Pisces Virgo Libra Cancers here? » 3/10/2016 12:42 pm |
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| No Contact » If you're about to break No Contact, POST ON THIS THREAD!!! » 3/09/2016 4:07 pm |
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Everythingisbeautiful wrote:
Depends on how you feel when she contacts you. I would be polite and say thank you.
I hope you have a wonderful birthday tomorrow 🎉Thank you x
| No Contact » If you're about to break No Contact, POST ON THIS THREAD!!! » 3/08/2016 3:14 pm |
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Hi
It's my birthday tomorrow and ibelieve there's a chance i'll get a text from my ex....
Has i'm in a no contact mode ...
How should i react / respond ?
Should i ignore it ?
Should i just politely reply with a thanks?
Whats the best thing for me to do ?
Thanks
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Why do we want our ex back? » 2/29/2016 3:00 pm |
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I dont know how this is going to sound to everyone but myself and my ex gave each other what we had both been without for a long time
Someone loving us
Someone wanting to share everything with us
Someone caring about us
Someone wanting to be in contact with us at every opportunity
Someone having our back
Someone wanting to be with us
Someone
| No Contact » NO CONTACT!! Ok?!?! » 2/28/2016 4:09 pm |
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ForgetYourEvil wrote:Cherished wrote:Colonel Roosevelt wrote:
Cherished's post is very inspirational and practical and I agree. But I don't think there's anything wrong with contacting the specific person you like if you feel like it's right at a very deep level.
How do you know if contacting is the right thing to do? I really don't know how to answer that. I guess a lot of people contact for ego reasons like fear, insecurity, the need to control, and the need to see results now. Out of this need, it's easy to spiral back into negativity if we don't get the results we want, so no wonder NC is not just practical but repeated everywhere. But maybe if we get a gentle calling to contact not in that spirit but from a place of gratitude, real charm/confidence, and pure love/appreciation, then it may be good. The trick is getting into that good inner place of being, which Cherished's post describes.
Back when I was younger and much more shy than I am now, I really liked a friend of mine and we were distancing apart for several reasons. I wrote her a V-Day letter not to make her my gf but because it just felt right, to make her laugh, to feel good doing it, to write to her what I think about her and why I like her...it just felt really good....and she loved it. After that, the distance disappeared and we found more time to be together effortlessly. But yes, it all came from a place of inner knowing, self-confidence, and pure appreciation first.
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Agreed, of course you can initiate contact when the inspiration to do so is strong and you are UNCONDITIONAL in your giving- meaning you are purely reaching out for the benefit of THEM, not to try and wrangle a response. And a big mistake that many people make (we have seen it over and over here), is to "believe" that you are suddenly inspired to reach out. Because it is likely you actually are yearning for a response. Which is completely conditional. And it will work against you due to the frequency of y
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Letting go ! » 2/28/2016 3:57 pm |
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Just received this email from a friend ...bang on topic !
I recently completed reading the autobiography of Jack Dee. Much of his book chronicled his attempts to make it as a comedian. He described the years he spent plugging away on the stand-up circuits, trying to get the audience to like him.Some nights he’d get some laughs, some nights he wouldn’t. He kept trying to work out what he how to get the audience to like him and all the while he had to keep his day job going as a waiter."I tried being cheerful, thoughtful, nerdy, cheeky. Somehow nothing worked and as the years rolled by, I got more desperate," he said.He got fired from his day job for being too tired. He became a drunk from worrying about it. His girlfriend left him because he became obsessed and boring. Eventually, it was obvious, even to him: he had to think about giving up.Once he accepted that, he described it as like a weight coming off his shoulders. "I only had one week of bookings left, so I decided to just have fun."That night he walked on stage as himself, and didn’t smile or say anything. He simply glowered out at the audience, “Well you look a right miserable lot,” he sneered. They started to laugh. “Shut up," he ordered, "I don’t want your pity laughter.” They laughed louder.He carried on like that all through his performance. At the end he concluded, “Right, I’m finished. You can all f**k off now” and he got a standing ovation. He continued doing the same thing every night, and the manager offered him a contract at double the wages.Jack Dee eventually learned to do what was true for him: he was himself. This made him different and this difference made him one of the most successful comedians in the UK.
Seems like he only found success when he gave up worrying about other people liking him and just pleased / was himself
This stuff works in all cases
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