PS. This technique definitely is so powerful...I did it before, writing about sitting on a beach in the country I wanted to move to, talking with a friend from there about a specific topic. It happened, I moved there. And later I realised we had been sitting on the beach talking about that exact topic and I was amazed at how it had worked out so precisely!!! :D it was also a topic I didn't really care about, it wasn't important to me, it was just a light hearted thing, so I had let go of the detail and even that small detail had manifested exactly as I had written because I wasn't opposing it! The magic of allowing and letting it happen! :D

1. I comfort him, listen and I am supportive.
2. I have an open heart and shower him with unconditional love.
3. I make him laugh.
4. I stay calm and have balanced emotions.
5. I have integrity and behave according to my principles.

UPDATE:

I'm going to post updates of my progress. I was doing a process just now that I randomly made up, for changing beliefs. I thought, maybe other people could benefit from doing this, so I will share it. I always perceived beliefs as being so stubborn but this seems to be working so far.
 
I thought of all the negative thoughts I have been having, and felt around for what assumptions or beliefs were behind them. I wrote them down in a list. I then challenged each item on the list, exposing how there was no truth in them.

I wrote out one item at a time, then each time I was going to challenge it, I drew an arrow pointing down, and wrote out the positive statements underneath, so the arrow gave me the feeling of change happening. (I always write the negative beliefs inside quotes...maybe a bit OCD xD but it reminds me it's just an idea and not truth). After I felt like I had shifted the energy, I crossed out the old belief from the original list. I worked on seven negative beliefs and I'll write below how I challenged them.

1. Belief: "It's too complicated".

Challenge: The Universe can handle it!

2. Belief: "He's not the type to commit".

Challenge:
Anyone can be in a relationship. There is no type.
He can adapt his plans for me.
Everything is always able to change in this vibrational Universe.

3. Belief: "My company isn't worthwhile".

Challenge:
I enjoy my company! So it's worthwhile to me!

Also here, I thought of a memory I had earlier this evening of an event where I was feeling really sociable and was having fun, being myself the way I usually am when there are no distractions. I felt vibrant and described some good things about myself, being great company etc.

My SP and I laughed so much! We had a great time together! Since people want more of the good things in life, my SP therefore wants to spend more time with me.

4. Belief: "He doesn't have romantic feelings towards me anymore".

Challenge:
I don't know what feelings other people are ex

jensherratt wrote:

Whom you adore, adores you back.
"You teach each other your respective responsive vibrations.
In other words, you don't feel any way about anyone without them helping you to feel that way.
Its really co-creation.

We will even go further and bolder and louder and blunter.
If there is someone you don't like, they don't like you either.
We have never seen it any other way.
We have never one time, ever known someone to adore someone that the one they were adoring, didn't adore them back.
Now, some are saying ....... Oh wait, there was that man I once loved with all my heart and he didn't love me back.
And we say, you were offering him insecurity.
You were offering him worry.
It wasn't that pure vibration of love.
When you are tuned in, tapped in, turned on, when you are connected to your source, and holding someone as your object of attention and you are genuinely offering that feeling of love and appreciation, they can't offer you anything else."

-Abraham Hicks!


This confuses people because they don't understand the difference between desire and obsession.

I have said this before, countless times, and I will say it again.
Desire is a two way street. ALWAYS!

So, what's the difference?

DESIRE:
When you have the desire, you feel good about it. You're confident in yourself. You trust that it will be delivered to you by the universe at the correct timing. You don't worry about where it is because you know it already exists. You don't worry about it because you the "how" is the job of the universe. Whenever you think about your desire, you're happy, positive, confident, and excited. Signs and synchronicitys appear all over the place.

OBSESSION:
When you don't fully believe that it is possible to have whatever it is you're asking for. You have doubt and you focus on the lack. You look for signs and get frustrated when they don't appear. You have low self esteem and lack of trust in the universe. You have no confidence. You think you can't have it. Y

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