PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Well I'm pleased to know Chris Hemsworth also fancies me!

lol 

jensherratt wrote:

Whom you adore, adores you back.
"You teach each other your respective responsive vibrations.
In other words, you don't feel any way about anyone without them helping you to feel that way.
Its really co-creation.

We will even go further and bolder and louder and blunter.
If there is someone you don't like, they don't like you either.
We have never seen it any other way.
We have never one time, ever known someone to adore someone that the one they were adoring, didn't adore them back.
Now, some are saying ....... Oh wait, there was that man I once loved with all my heart and he didn't love me back.
And we say, you were offering him insecurity.
You were offering him worry.
It wasn't that pure vibration of love.
When you are tuned in, tapped in, turned on, when you are connected to your source, and holding someone as your object of attention and you are genuinely offering that feeling of love and appreciation, they can't offer you anything else."

-Abraham Hicks!


This confuses people because they don't understand the difference between desire and obsession.

I have said this before, countless times, and I will say it again.
Desire is a two way street. ALWAYS!

So, what's the difference?

DESIRE:
When you have the desire, you feel good about it. You're confident in yourself. You trust that it will be delivered to you by the universe at the correct timing. You don't worry about where it is because you know it already exists. You don't worry about it because you the "how" is the job of the universe. Whenever you think about your desire, you're happy, positive, confident, and excited. Signs and synchronicitys appear all over the place.

OBSESSION:
When you don't fully believe that it is possible to have whatever it is you're asking for. You have doubt and you focus on the lack. You look for signs and get frustrated when they don't appear. You have low self esteem and lack of trust in the universe. You have no confidence. You think you can't have it. You're constantly wondering where it is and when will it happen. You're focusing too much on your current reality. You focus on obstacles. You start questioning whether or not you should give up.

Its really that simple.

Thank you for this! I love this post! It's what I've been needing to hear because I tell myself that sort of thing and then doubt comes up. I am swinging between desire and obsession but mainly obsession and realised not long ago that I need to get my own life and stop thinking about his lol!

The goal now is to be more consistent and stop swinging between doubt and trust. For example, told myself I was going to have a nice relaxing bath as an act of self love. Unintentionally start visualising nice things about my SP and other goals, then out of nowhere, random paranoid/worrisome images come to mind. So I just shook it off, took some deep breaths and reminded myself to focus on myself. Would be nice to not have that conflict...I'll get there eventually. But yes, thanks for the inspiration.

I think it depends how they chase. In my opinion, as a woman, I don't chase the man. If he acts like he is obsessed (I had a man once really obsessed over me-he would come over to my place even though I specifically asked him I did not want him to and he would follow me on all of my social media accounts and just did not seem to understand that I was not going to let him into my life further) but the man that shows genuine interest, that I prefer.  It's like, I don't really want to be with someone who doesn't want me either but desperation is not attractive. Well, that's just my personal opinion anyways. Cheer .

Its hard ignoring current reality sometimes.