Does this challenge also apply to getting a job at a specific company and getting a guy who isn't your ex?

I need to practice self love and do things that make me feel good.
Today, i woke up and it was a beautiful day so i decided i can either stay home or go out and enjoy my day even though my friends were all busy with their kids or work. So i went alone and i am glad i did. Even tried to help a horse who was tied to a carriage and it is illegal and the poor horse didnt look good ..couldn't stand by and do nothing so i called the authorities who took it seriously
I need to know that if someone is thinner or prettier doesn't make her any more worthy of a relationship.

Sanshi wrote:

collie wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

My personal belief (that I get confirmation for on a daily basis) is that we attract everything we encounter. So the basis for how people treat us is in our thoughts and beliefs. I don't know which thoughts you had, so I can't tell you what made this happen. But I know that this is just a reflection and by focusing on it, you get more of it. So, stop that. Go off the subject for now, if necessary.
Scripting and stuff is nice, but much more important is what you think between your scripting sessions. Are you aware of it? And is it in line with what you scripted?

Thanks for replying. I do have thoughts that i am not good enough for him and that he will prefer someone like the new girl on his team or this other girl..that he might think they are more relationship material than me.
I do think he only wants me on the physical level so yep i did attract that. Should I stop scripting and doing the techniques to manifest him for now? Should i text him or not before he goes to the army? What do you suggest I do? I want him to respect me and want more than just physical .

It's not about what you do, but where your focus is. You can do all the techniques, but don't get sloppy in your thinking the rest of the day. Live the relationship you want with him now without wobbling. Assume him to be the one you want him to be.

Unfortunately, I do wobble and lets things i hear or experience interfere and ruin my mood. Another thing that i read is that we mustn't let hurt get in the way and we must forgive quickly. Is that true? If i don't send him a message before he goes on duty it will only be coz i am hurt..should i try overcome it and send him a message to take care before he goes and then go NC until he contacts me and he will?

Sanshi wrote:

My personal belief (that I get confirmation for on a daily basis) is that we attract everything we encounter. So the basis for how people treat us is in our thoughts and beliefs. I don't know which thoughts you had, so I can't tell you what made this happen. But I know that this is just a reflection and by focusing on it, you get more of it. So, stop that. Go off the subject for now, if necessary.
Scripting and stuff is nice, but much more important is what you think between your scripting sessions. Are you aware of it? And is it in line with what you scripted?

Thanks for replying. I do have thoughts that i am not good enough for him and that he will prefer someone like the new girl on his team or this other girl..that he might think they are more relationship material than me.
I do think he only wants me on the physical level so yep i did attract that. Should I stop scripting and doing the techniques to manifest him for now? Should i text him or not before he goes to the army? What do you suggest I do? I want him to respect me and want more than just physical .

Thanks for replying. Very true..i do feel he won't want a real relationship with me other than physical and i don't want that.
As for texting him..i wish him only the best but after what he said to me then i am thinking maybe it isn't respecting myself.