I'd like to add that, like others here, I have been working on self love, and in just a short time I feel so much better about myself.  I still believe we'll be together, but if not, I can be okay with that now. There is a hypnosis dvd that has really helped me, more than any other single thing. It is called Love and Believe in Yourself by Dick Sutphen.  I don't know him, and I don't get anything by recommending it, other than possibly the satisfaction of helping somebody. He sells it on his website.

You're making a lot of assumptions, aren't you? You're dwelling on all of your fears, not on what you want. You can't possibly know what is going on in her mind and heart. Outward appearances don't mean a thing. Imagination creates reality, and what reality are you creating by having all of these negative beliefs? Not the one you say you want but the very one you don't want. Perceived obstacles are illusions.
When my person didn't contact me for all of that time, I had absolutely no idea why. He ignored me for 4 years and 4 months. It made me feel terrible, and of course sometimes I thought of the worst possible reasons, felt rejected, felt bad about myself, etc., but I also felt that we would be together eventually, and I still believe that. I'm not stressing over it any more like I did for a long time, and I'm not making him the focus of my life any more and constantly dwelling on it like I used to. Put some of your focus, a lot of it, back on you and your life, and make yourself happy without her. Lose the desperation and fear and neediness. Would you want somebody like that? It's not very attractive. That is what will push her away and keep her away.
Veronica has said that it doesn't matter if the person has told you they hate you, if they've blocked you, or anything else. She says she knows of many people who have successfully reunited with their person in spite of these things.
Consistently imagine things being the way you ideally want them to be, ignore current reality, and the rest of the time take good care of yourself and make yourself the star of your life.

80saeaak wrote:

The psychic told me he'd take a few days to respond. It's been two hours and I'm still stuck on sent. Meaning he read it, but didn't accept the message. I felt it when he read it about an hour later. I wasn't thinking about it, but I felt the flood of energy like he
So with this I'm calling it quits. I know the remote seduction works. I've seen it work. I've manifested many relationships and exes back. I feel like either I have too much resistance or I've lost my touch. I just give up. It's easier that way just totally focus on anything else.

*sigh*

You must be joking. Two hours later you want to give up?  The psychic told you it would take him days to respond.  I've consulted a couple of amazing psychics, but one thing they have NEVER got right is the timing when something was going to happen - sometimes it was much later, sometimes much sooner.
It sounds like you are very close to a result, so why give up?
 

Lanie Stevens has got an mp3 meditation called Cutting the Cord that may help you. I've got that one, as well as some others of hers, and it is meant to take your energy back that you have been giving to the person and mentally cutting the cord between you. It's a way of detaching yourself, and she's claimed successful results from people who were afraid to use it for fear of losing their person. She has said it had the opposite effect and actually helped to get them back.

YesIWILL wrote:

I know how easy it is to lose faith that they'll come back after years of ignoring you, keeping you blocked, not caring enough to unblock you, for example... but my question is, how does one keep the faith up even after such a long time (2-3 years+) of them ignoring or not showing that interest in you anymore, moving on, etc.? Cause it's really hard to believe they'll come back after such a long time of not giving a **** about you. If that makes sense. Kinda makes one lose faith altogether. Can you guys help me find a way to keep the faith that she'll come back to me, despite what the world is showing me and how long it's been with her still ignoring me, not caring for me, etc.?

Could just use a little help on keeping my faith up



Thank you!

Time doesn't make any difference. I had a longer time than that, 4 years and 4 months, during which he completely ignored and snubbed me, telling me later that he was essentially punishing me for what other women had done to him, calling it his 'little tantrum', and when I finally suddenly one day felt nothing for him any more, and couldn't even make myself feel anything for him any more, the following month he wrote to me and told me how much he wanted to talk to me on the phone.  We did that for about 15 months or so. It's always been long distance, and things were going very well for a while, but then things started to deteriorate and I haven't heard from him for about 9 months. I reckon I will hear from him again when he's good and ready and has got over his current tantrum, if that's what it is this time, and the time is right, if I even still want to by then.