| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Confused about the concept of LoA » 9/11/2017 8:04 pm |
- Gratitude21
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No anger. But absolutely dry. I messaged saying ' Hi, how are you. Was thinking about you so thought if saying hi'.
He responded saying he is good and asked what's up with me.
I replied and asked him about some event which is coming up in Oct and how is he feeling about it.
He said he is looking forward to it and then said he is on a call right now and then will call me tomorrow and we said bye.
But he didn't call back & it's been 3days 😔
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Confused about the concept of LoA » 9/11/2017 9:28 am |
- Gratitude21
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Hi friends,
I read 'The Secret ' about 2yrs back and since then I try to follow LoA in however way I can. My understanding of LoA is what we ask for, what we focus on is what we receive.
I've been on this forum for about 2weeks and the purpose being to have my sweetheart back with me for good. I've got some really nice advices from all the good people here. People who are in similar situations or people who have manifested their love back in their life....have been very helpful here.
What confuses me a little now is that there are different views about how and what to do.
1. Meaning some people say ask and let go...and some people say be persistent and focused on what you want. 2. Some say just ask and forget about it...whereas a lot of people talk about doing constant visualisations and RS and everything.
I can understand that probably every situation demands a different approach...but is that really the case?
I've done 25days challenge...I do visualisations...I do Guided meditations with Agnes. I do self love affirmations and am completely concentrating on improving my life...as there is a big change in my life, i.e. I'm starting my own business now.
I did break the no contact rule after about 2months of doing all these things by messaging my sweetheart but the response wasn't that great. He had said he'll call the next day but he never did.
What is bothering me is that I had thought that doing all the things I did would have softened him a little but he not calling back even when he said he will doesn't look like that he wants me back.
What is it that I'm doing wrong? Or what is it that I need to do more?
What is the right way....letting go or stay focused on it?
I'm really absolutely confused about this now. Need guidance from all you experts and any and everybody who understands this better.
Thank you!
| Remote Seduction/Influence » reversed RS? » 9/10/2017 11:32 am |
- Gratitude21
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sillyromantic wrote:80saeaak wrote:sillyromantic wrote:
Thank you for taking the time to respond. I feel like I want to move on and let go and its holding me back. Even the thought of anyone new holding my hand or kissing me grosses me out and I have new people wanting to be with me but the thoughts of my person won't leave me alone. I've been doing good for a while, manifesting many great other things and thinking about him made me hopeful and didnt bother me but now there's a nice guy courting me and even wanting to fly here from another country to see me and all my emotions became a mess and I got nervous actually moving on. Its ridiculous because my specific person left with a rebound immediately and here I am 4 months later still stuck on him. I didnt know that doing RS makes you so attached to that person, I thought it was affecting them more than me. I should try to find other thoughts to replace with but its so hard, literally pops in my head every time I go to sleep, wake up, sitting in my car... Its like a curse..
It really should be talked about more. Sending energy is literally spellwork, though that's a trigger word and people don't like to think of it that way. When you envision someone obsessed with you, loving you, holding you, and saying wonderful things to you, you're creating that energy within you also. It's intense! That's why Lanie is so adamant about her cord cutting technique. I've never done hers. I use the ones I shared. It's vital to do it each time to ensure you don't wind up obsessed. The longer you hold off, the stronger the cords become and the harder they are to sever permanently. I can say that I spent months obsessed with my original POI and it took a while to get over it. I no longer have this feelings, but I had to completely cut the cord for a couple of months. Now the idea of him touching me makes my skin crawl. I'm working on total indifference. That's when I'll know I'm over it.
wow this is very intense I
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| No Contact » If you're about to break No Contact, POST ON THIS THREAD!!! » 9/10/2017 10:38 am |
- Gratitude21
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80saeaak wrote:
I've been struggling with the urge to contact. Nothing intense, but I do miss him. I miss waking up to "good morning doll" texts and just having someone to make me laugh.
I did have an energy healing yesterday and she tuned into him. She said the RS is working (I do very subtle where we normally don't talk and I just kiss and touch his face) and is affecting his moods. The only thing she said that's keeping him from contacting me is that he is one of those people who doesn't forgive. So now I need to work on that. Any ideas on what I should be visualizing to get him past that?Hi, somebody in this trail itself has suggested writing letters to your POI but keeping them to yourself.
Here is the link -
I've started this two days back. It does make you feel light and probably might help in your situation too.
All the best!
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Feel. Good. Now. » 9/09/2017 9:09 pm |
- Gratitude21
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Dan2015 wrote:
I feel like it's not working because you desperately want it to work, one thing I've learned about LOA...is when you DESPERATELY want things to work, it most likely won't work.
That's how I was in june/july I was doing RS like every day, 2 sometimes 3 times a day and other things... it was ok, but things were ehh
but lately, I've just been trying to make myself happy and enjoy my hobbies, and since then everything in life has gotten 100 times betterIs your POI back with you?
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Feel. Good. Now. » 9/09/2017 9:06 pm |
- Gratitude21
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Thanks Dan! Till the time I didn't chat with him for 2mths ...the desperation wasn't there. But when I did I just started looking forward for him to call coz he said he will. Yes, you are right...I need to work on changing my focus on myself.
From what I understand about LoA is to manifest anything in your life you have to be on a higher frequency, i.e. you are happy and content with what you have...only then universe delivers.
Thank you so much for your response. All the best to you.
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Feel. Good. Now. » 9/09/2017 10:24 am |
- Gratitude21
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I'm still trying to achieve this. Im realizing it now that I've a fickle mind...one day I feel so positive and seems like everything is possible for me. But two days after the fears and doubts are back.
I'm doing my visualisations, affirmations for Self love and for my sweetheart. I broke the no contact rule yesterday by messaging him almost after 2mths. The conversation was light and he said he is on a call right now and will talk to me the nex day. I kept thinking after the conversation that breaking then I contact rule was not bad and the urge to talk has gone and I can continue my no contact again. Today read about writing letters...so started that.
But as the day progressed I started obsessing about his phone call, which never came. It just saddened me.
I know I shouldn't be waiting, but today I couldn't help but keep looking at my phone expecting it to display his number.
Looks like the whole 2mths work has gone in the drain as if whatever I've done so far...the meditations...25days challenge...visualisations...affirmations...RS...nothing has worked. If it did he would have called when he said he will. I've been doing it all with so much love ...not desperation. Then why didn't it work? 2mths of all this should have melted him a little 😔
What am I doing wrong?
| Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » Success! » 9/09/2017 1:29 am |
- Gratitude21
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InParadise wrote:
Hey guys. I want to encourage those of you who are still fearing of letting go and hanging onto the past to move forward and let go. I recently attracted my POI back by letting him go. I started focusing on my own life and even met someone new. Then boom, the POI wants me back in his life! I am still seeing how things go with my POI. I have let go of all expectations and I am focused on figuring out what is the best path for me since I do like the new guy I am seeing. I strongly believe they can sense your energy and they know when you start to shift your energy away from them. I was doing all sorts of LOA techniques for the first couple of months until I finally decided to trust the Universe and move forward with my life.
Trust the Universe. Love yourself. Believe that things can only get better going forward!Congratulations! This is simply amazing....all the best. I'm also focusing on self love although did break my no contact phase and messaged my sweetheart. Response from him was not that great but I felt a lot better. At least he was not angry. I'm doing my visualisations and started the letter writing too. Feeling so much motivated reading your post. Thank you!
| No Contact » If you're about to break No Contact, POST ON THIS THREAD!!! » 9/09/2017 1:23 am |
- Gratitude21
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Gratitude21 wrote:Staceylouuu91x wrote:
If you're really struggling with no contact check out this thread PrettyFlamingo posted. It'll help you.
This sounds great and I'm surprised I've missed this post. But it's never too late to start and that is what I'll do, write letters to him for the next 30days 🙂.
Loads of love to you all. Thank you.I wrote my first letter. It feels good to have cleared out one incident, which lead to our breakup, in my mind. When we were arguing about it he was not letting me speak what I wanted to coz he thought that explanations are useless. I did it now with this letter and it feels so good. I told him my reasoning for my reaction and apologised for it. Hope he catches this energy and understands it too.
| No Contact » If you're about to break No Contact, POST ON THIS THREAD!!! » 9/08/2017 10:26 pm |
- Gratitude21
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YesIWILL wrote:Gratitude21 wrote:YesIWILL wrote:
Gah, I just asked for a sign that we'll be together and saw her name, (very unique name, VERY uncommon to meet someone with this name in general, let alone see it on the internet) and also saw the name of the city in which she's from in a post near the previous one.
How do I take these signs as hope when it feels so unlikely that she'd return? I need to do something about how I'm feeling about this... hmm... I feel like it has to be a sign, but I just can't be convinced. Damn.Signs are motivators and if you feel this is a sign then this is a sign. But why do I sense so much of uncertainty in you. That's not LoA! You have to trust that she is with you and your total trust will only make it happen. Love yourself....live in gratitude...be happy just as you will be when she is going to be with you. Trust the process!
All the best to you!I just don't believe she can come back, which I'm sure is why you sense "some" uncertianty
Thank you though. I'm trying hard to get myself to a place which I can believe she'd be on her way.Hope you get to that place soon and she follows 😀. Take care.
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com