Hi there, sorry for my ignorance, but what is Ho' oponopono  and how does it work? Any info and links etc would be much appreciated. Thank you in advance

Hi All,

So I wrote about a week ago that I had dinner with my Ex and it was fab. We reconnected and it was incredible. Since then she came to an event I was speaking at and made a real effort to look fab - we had another lovely easy going evening with each other. That said, last night I was out with some friends and met her again at a bar, it was a little awkward as I noticed she was on a date... I said smiling and kindly to her "Im sorry I think you are on a date", she said she was, and smiled at me, she was shaking with nerves. I gave her a hug and wished her a lovely evening and went to another place with my friends as this was the plan anyway. Before I left she complimented me on how I looked. I did see the girl she was meeting, she was very pretty and seemed nice. 

I have to say it was hard to see this, but I understand this, I mean its the reason we broke up as she wanted to see other people, she just arrived in my city and we started dating within one week of her being here,  and she did not plan to be in a relationship and we got very close very quickly - I have to say I rushed things too. So what she is doing in dating other people is fine, its meant to be this way. 

All I know for sure is we have a great time when we are together, we have a lovely connection and I want her to be happy. I also know that she and I are a great couple and at the right time and in the right way it will work out. I need to continue to work on myself and be the best version of myself that i can be.

I just wanted to share this with you all as I think the experience is important to note and to be okay with. I am confident everything is happening for a reason.

Love and Light to you all
 

hey all, this is my first time creating a post in the forum, love and light to you all.
So Im gay and was seeing a wonderful woman for a few months, she was not looking for anything serious as she has just moved here and wanted to have a bit of exploration, and fun, was fine with me at the start, but we kinda got very close very quickly, I began to fall for her in a big way. She thought it was too much, even though she really liked me, it was too easy to spend time with me and wanted to see other people and have other opportunities. I did not want her to miss out or resent me so I accepted it although, I have to say i was devastated, the whole way through our 4month relationship I knew this would happen so I guess I manifested that. 

Since then we have stayed in touch a bit, seen each other twice where it was relaxed and friendly nothing more. She has pinged / txt me a few times but she is always very short like, hi how are you? I make conversation and try to be light hearted but am nervous every time i hear from her and see her. She knows I am mad about her, I care about her. She basically gives me one word answers to the questions I ask her. But she contacts me? but then ends the conversation by disappearing or something... its so weird, I am worried about her getting bored and not contacting me anymore but I know she likes me.. I know that she will contact me again but I don't know how to behave or make the conversation more interesting? I am nervous now and I know that thats not a good vibration... maybe i should not care so much about these interactions and just trust they will improve?