Hi All,

So I wrote about a week ago that I had dinner with my Ex and it was fab. We reconnected and it was incredible. Since then she came to an event I was speaking at and made a real effort to look fab - we had another lovely easy going evening with each other. That said, last night I was out with some friends and met her again at a bar, it was a little awkward as I noticed she was on a date... I said smiling and kindly to her "Im sorry I think you are on a date", she said she was, and smiled at me, she was shaking with nerves. I gave her a hug and wished her a lovely evening and went to another place with my friends as this was the plan anyway. Before I left she complimented me on how I looked. I did see the girl she was meeting, she was very pretty and seemed nice. 

I have to say it was hard to see this, but I understand this, I mean its the reason we broke up as she wanted to see other people, she just arrived in my city and we started dating within one week of her being here,  and she did not plan to be in a relationship and we got very close very quickly - I have to say I rushed things too. So what she is doing in dating other people is fine, its meant to be this way. 

All I know for sure is we have a great time when we are together, we have a lovely connection and I want her to be happy. I also know that she and I are a great couple and at the right time and in the right way it will work out. I need to continue to work on myself and be the best version of myself that i can be.

I just wanted to share this with you all as I think the experience is important to note and to be okay with. I am confident everything is happening for a reason.

Love and Light to you all