Attracting a specific person is never about the stuff you do. You can visualize, affirm, etc. like there's no tomorrow and still get nowhere if your energy is repelling the other person. Doing these things does not equal alignment with being with your specific person. This is what people don't understand. They look at it as a formula of things to do and never change themselves inside and that's why nothing happens.

No, you don't ever have to move on. But you do have to genuinely change your energy. If the person is not coming, you are not in the right energy. Period.

Agnes Vivarelli says it so well. Everyone is you pushed out. They are only acting out what you project upon them with your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs about them. And about yourself.

Yes, disappointment is repelling.

First, the universe doesn't try to communicate with you. Your external world is nothing but a reflection of what is going on inside you. And you are in complete control.

Second, watch Agnes Vivarelli's videos on YouTube. She offers such insight when it comes to attracting people and answers a bunch of questions.

rpt.sunnymist wrote:

Hi sunny . you went 10 months of no contact then what results you have got?
I did no contact & she msg me on 33rd day.she said she miss me need my support.
I was happy but after some talking "she said forget me & marry another, forgive me, many good girls now out there, marry someone better& i will be your kid's aunty".
After listening this i was shocked..
& now trying my best to raise my vibration.
From 4 days she didn't read my another msg but yesterday she replied as a friend.
Can you show me a light pls?
Thanks

Yes, I'm currently at 10 months of no contact. I'm honestly very happy we have not been in contact for this long because it has really given me time to learn so much about myself, form my own identity, heal over the past, and grow in love for myself. I would recommend it to anyone. We are still not in contact, but I'll tell you why -- I haven't been doing the work to align myself with the reality where he and I are together. Really, I haven't. I've just been content with focusing on myself and finding more ways in which I can make myself happy. I know I can attract him back any time I want. I still desire to be with him, but it's not my top priority. I'm doing well.

I would say in your situation, focus on yourself. If she doesn't want to talk every day, don't worry about it. Go out and live your life. Think/feel as though you are already in the relationship you want with her, stay in that feeling no matter what, don't worry about what happens in your current reality in the meantime. Nothing can stop her from coming to you if you properly align with the reality where you are with her.

I agree that you should start another thread if you want more responses

You don't have to turn anything around. It's not about action. It's about thoughts and feelings. It's about living like you have the relationship you want now. This will align you with the reality in which you are already together with your person. That reality is happening right now. You just have to align your thoughts and feelings with it and stay aligned.

iinikkii wrote:

Would love anyone's input!! Feeling pretty down about all this

Hi iinikkii, no, you haven't ruined anything. It's not about the actions you take, it's about your vibration and aligning with the reality you want. I think it's wise to know when to back away and focus on yourself, which is what you're doing here.