So the problem is not attracting a lover back its what happens after that. So my situation now is that he has been back for months our bond has been reconnected back to how it use to be. However, during the time of no contact he became engaged to someone he had dealings with previously. I had to find out on my own because he surely wasn't going to tell me. Heart broken but he keeps telling me we are good friends. Sometimes his actions say he wants more, he calls and talks to me for hours as well as sees me in his free time. But now I am to the point to cut it all off gradually. I use to fear him getting married. I tell myself the quote "we can never lose whats meant for us even if we throw it away" Maybe he's not the one for me. For the most part I am good at disregarding my true emotions so when I feel bad I redirect my thoughts. I don't call him anymore unless I have a missed call. Im in a place to not knowing if I should say forget it all, but I more on I don't care anymore I give up and let it go all together start over with someone else. How can you get engage to someone and never claim that person or still continue to have intimacy with others that you once had feelings for? So I felt like I was interfering  now that  I do know he is engaged.

jenbeckley1992 wrote:

mariposa00 wrote:

Stay positive and dont expect it to happen and just allow it. good luck!

 
Don't expect it to happen?
You wouldn't do it if you weren't expecting it to happen.

Sorry i was half asleep i re wrote what i meant

Dream101 wrote:

Hi All,

I am on day 5 of Veronica's 25 day challenge and day 20 of no contact from my BF and really struggling each time I look at my phone and see no message or call.

I am starting to lose my motivation to continue with the challenge and whether there is any hope left. It's also hard as I cannot talk to any of my friends or family about this as they all think I'm moving on and have started getting over the BF.

Really need some support and comments so would appreciate any tips,  help or support all you lovely people could provide me with.

Thank you xx

 
First and foremost you have to become unattached to the outcome of your desire you are send out negative vibrations and when you do that you create resistance. In other words you get more of what you are complaining about. I knownits hard I been where you are and I had to learn to let go they will come back!

Stay positive and dont become overly obsessed with it happening just allow it to flow. Its like expecting a package in the mail you know its coming so relax not omgn where is it at.

After reading her book PW I was skeptical for many different reasons and I am sure I am not the first. However, after reading it I said I would test the waters. I did it on my ex and someone else I use to date that I am no where near attached to and could careless about. So a day goes by and Im like sure it works (sarcastic) Um this morning ha the guy I use to date texted me, acknowledged how he misses me all the time and asking to see me again, NOPE. Then my ex started saying all the things I was thinking but he was saying them in a jokingly way, hey that still counts right? Im amazed.