Well its been working but my challenge is knowing when he is serious or joking. Things I have been visualizing about he says but its like child play for example "you lucky I didnt meet you earlier cause I would have you, or you about to be taken again. Its contridicting. At times his behavior makes me discourage especially these disappering acts they are becoming more frequent. Before I was afraid to show him how I really felt and now I am showing it its like I am scaring him. Any suggestions?