I'm in a similar situation with my SP, so I can sympathize.

One thing I'm trying to do is visualize her as being healed, or at least healed enough to be ready for a relationship and to be willing to tackle challenges together instead of allowing them to split us apart.

One thing to keep in mind I think, is that a lot of other people are in healthy, loving, and healing relationships while still having mental health struggles. They do take time to recover from, but there's no reason why your person couldn't still be with you while healing himself, and you can also be there to offer support where needed! It's kind of manifesting a win-win for both of you when you think of it that way.

You want him to be mentally healthy and happy with himself, so by all means manifest him healing too! but if it's a relationship you want to manifest with him, then don't see his internal struggles as something that's blocking it from happening. it's just something that is, and the relationship can happen regardless.

So like a lot of people here, I'm working on manifesting a specific person lmao. I won't go into details, but basically we had a falling out and my current focus is on trying to manifest her reaching out to apologize and reconcile.

One thing I see with Veronica and a lot of LOA coaches is that they emphasize self love and taking the person off the pedestal above all else. And this is absolutely great advice that has helped me a lot! However, I'm having the opposite problem: I now see my SP as someone who's too cowardly to approach me now.

I fully believe she loves me, admires me as a person, misses me and knows how badly she hurt me, but feels so guilty about the situation that she's keeping the bridge burned out of shame. Which is still a limiting belief, and I feel bad for judging her as a person! So I'm just wondering: how does one start changing beliefs when they're mostly about the other person, rather than about oneself?