Hey guys, 
So I manifested my significant other back after a year of him ghosting and ignoring me. (You can read my story from my previous posts) Like I've tried reaching out to him during that period of time and he flat out ignored me. And during that time, he even got himself a new gf (I know I manifested this due to my insecurities). So that was when I was like that's it. I decided to completely heal and focus on myself. I delved deep into self love and meditated a lot, prayed a lot, started writing out my goals, did the gratitude journal, spent time with friends etc. Then one day, he came back. 

But, when he came back, he didnt apologize or say any lovey dovey stuff. No, he came back and pretended like nothing happened. Like he talked to me like a friend. Of course, I accepted this and went along for the ride. 
And we hooked up, twice. 
But then I realized that everytime we hook up, he'd ignore me until the next time we hook up again. And I started getting anxiety bout being ' just a hook up, nothing more' and I pulled the plug. I told him I didn't wanna hook up anymore. And then he agreed and tried talking to me after but I kinda ignored him for awhile because I wanted to try and get my mind together. It was heartbreaking for me to have to go through a FWB kinda situation after a year of finally manifesting him. I didn't know what to do. Like I did self love and everything but I just didn't understand why he only wanted sex and nothing more. Like i was trying to figure out where I went wrong and what is about me that is manifesting this. 
So, a week later (I'd say recently, like a couple days ago) he found someone new and posted a picture with this new girl on his Snapchat. Of course, I saw the snap and broke down. I immediately blocked him and now here I am, feeling heartbroken and shitty. Like damn, not again. Did I manifest this third party AGAIN? Like it's been two girls so far and he still doesn't choose me. he still chose these other girls instead o

So... My boyfriend came back, and we've been talking and I thought he wanted a relationship with me again. 
But turns out he wants a 'friends with benefits'. 

I thought to myself, okay play it cool. Why not try it out and see how I feel about it. 
And so we did the FWB but now i'm like... I dont know if i want this, i think i want something more. 

So what do I do? How do I get him to want a 'relationship' with me and not just FWB.

Thanks for the reply you guys. Ya'll are right. I think I'm just too fixated on what he should be doing. Like I've my expectations up for some reason. I mean it's great that now he opened up communication, I just don't know where to go from here. 
Like we started talking but its not like what I hoped for. nothing romantic or sweet, or anything flirty, no indication that he wants to reconcile or still have feelings for me. Sometimes when I reply to his messages, I feel like I'm back to being the one who's trying too hard and his responses started becoming 'disinterested' if you know what I mean. 
Last night we texted and he didn't seem like he was really interested in what I had to say, i mean he replied but he didn't seem eager to talk to me or focused on the convo. And he even stopped replying at one point. I don't know if he's playing hard to get with me but he definitely isn't trying with me.
This morning, I woke up and didn't get any messages from him but I noticed that he liked his ex's tweets.
But I didn't let it get to me and shrugged it off. 
How do I get him to you know... I don't know be more interested in reconciling or at the very least, interested in me again?

Thanks everyone ! 

Update: I didn't reply to my boyfriend's text till like 5 days later, only because I didn't know what to say. So today I finally replied to his text and he replied back, then I replied and then poof. He stopped replying... He opened the text and read it but he didn't reply. 

Now this is the reason why it took me awhile to reply because I got scared. Scared that I'll come off as needy and desperate if I do or that he'll stop replying since you know he ghosted me for a year and ignored my texts/attempts of reaching out. 
But I felt good about myself today so I decided to reply but now to my disappointment, he stopped replying. And now I'm having the 'i knew i shouldn't have replied' moment or the 'seemed too good to be true' moment. 

What should I do? Helppp

Hi guys, 

I've an update ! Well, it's not really a big deal, but it's still an update. A small one I might add. 
So it's been almost a year now since my boyfriend and I broke up and last talked. If you read my old posts, you'll see my story. 
But anyway, he ghosted me and got a new girlfriend and then broke up with his girlfriend yada yada. While he was in that relationship with another girl, I decided to deactivate my social media just so I would stop myself from stalking them and focus on me. 
Every morning I would do Agnes's self love meditations and the H'oponono prayer, because I felt like I needed to alleviate the anxiety and heartbreak I was feeling. I didn't even visualize at all. All I did was Agne's self love meditations and her 'send unconditional love' meditation. That's it. 
I started feeling good about myself, felt more calm and collected. In fact, my friends said I'm much more calm now and in fact, i barely talked about my boyfriend like how I used to. i mean sure I'd bring up his name here and there but nothing too crazy. 
So, after 3 months of social media hiatus, I decided to go back on social media and surprisingly, i didn't feel as needy as I used to be. I stopped having this need of wanting to 'impress' him or get his attention through my Instagram stories. fyi, we're only friends with each other only on Instagram, so that's the only way he could see my stuff. 
Anyway, a week ago, after I posted my about my happy outings with my friends on my Instagram story (mind you this time, i didn't post it out of spite, i posted about my outings because I was genuinely having a good time with my friends) and of course, he viewed them !
So... while I was out laughing and having a good time with my friends, SURPRISE! I got a Snapchat friend request from my boyfriend. Boy, was I shocked ! It took him this long to add me on Snapchat ! Again fyi, throughout the 1 year that he ghosted me and me trying to reach out to him, i have attempted to add him on S