Love it! The universe is crazy. Keep on going...

RollingRock33 wrote:

Thank you! So after everything shes said... how she says she has no feelings for me at all and theres no chance, im feelikg kind of doubtful again. I hope i can bring her back
What can i do to bring my vibe back up?

Surely you must realise that it's emotionally exhausting and physically draining flip-flopping like this all the time? There naturally comes a point where you just have to step back and work on yourself now.

It seems like a paradox to say 'work on yourself' and 'leave it' but that's just how LoA works – once she senses you're in a vibrational place – whether it's weeks or months – that's when she'll come back. The only work you need to do is on yourself, not on fixing your relationship. Lots of people have proved this on this board alone. But this emotional turmoil you're putting yourself through just isn't doing you any good for a) your mental health or b) your manifesting.

Like people have said over and over here, you need to spend some time with you. Forget about this girl for a bit. One week, two weeks, whatever. Improve your mental health, your vibration, and your physical health, and those good things will reflect back on you. If you're constantly in this state of up and down and panic and calmness about the situation you're just not going to attract her back into a new relationship. This is just how LoA works.

Listen, people change their minds ALL THE TIME. Every single second of every single day. You've probably done it multiple times already today. The best way to get her to switch her vibe is to improve yourself, and make yourself totally irresistible. Once you get to that place vibrationally, she will know.

Also: you have absolutely no idea if that pinned post referred to you or not! You're creating a story where there isn't one.
 

It is, but really – my advice is to stop looking for signs and validations that she still likes you and cares.

I'm glad your coffee went well, but now is your time to work on you – take some time out from her, work on yourself, read lots of LoA stuff and immerse yourself in it – try manifesting things other than to do with your love life, have fun with it. This will be a process that takes weeks and months, not days. The only way - the ONLY way - you'll be back in a relationship with her is if you ditch your fears and anxieties and you're the best version you can be of yourself. Once she feels vibrationally you're at that level (and this can be felt without any contact), that's when it will happen.

Yes!